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I saved/rescued my kitty Princess when she was 2 years old. I feed ferals and she just showed up one day ,also eating their food. She had on one of those cheap plastic flea collars, so I knew she belonged to somebody...but she was very, very skinny...so I just kept feeding her...gave her a plate of her own.
One day, she showed up without the collar...started staying on my porch, sleeping there. ( It was summer...so she was OK!) I tried to find her owners...but no one replied. ( I admit, I did not try very hard!)
My problem is...it has been 6 years...and I think she is still skittish! Maybe she was abused...I don't know! I know she loves me...she follows me from room to room, sits at my feet...staring at me with her big green eyes, likes to touch my face, sleeps with me. She stays in the house only.
But she is one of those cats...she only wants to be near me...I try to hold her...she balks! She relaxes and feels safe for a moment.. I feel it and hear it in her breathing...but then she stiffens up, looks frightened and runs! That breaks my heart every time.
How can I make her feel truly safe...relaxed...know she is loved, home?
I saved/rescued my kitty Princess when she was 2 years old. I feed ferals and she just showed up one day ,also eating their food. She had on one of those cheap plastic flea collars, so I knew she belonged to somebody...but she was very, very skinny...so I just kept feeding her...gave her a plate of her own.
One day, she showed up without the collar...started staying on my porch, sleeping there. ( It was summer...so she was OK!) I tried to find her owners...but no one replied. ( I admit, I did not try very hard!)
My problem is...it has been 6 years...and I think she is still skittish! Maybe she was abused...I don't know! I know she loves me...she follows me from room to room, sits at my feet...staring at me with her big green eyes, likes to touch my face, sleeps with me. She stays in the house only.
But she is one of those cats...she only wants to be near me...I try to hold her...she balks! She relaxes and feels safe for a moment.. I feel it and hear it in her breathing...but then she stiffens up, looks frightened and runs! That breaks my heart every time.
How can I make her feel truly safe...relaxed...know she is loved, home?