Here I am once more, asking for advice! It ties in to a couple previous threads but I'll sum up the situation!
-Early December, everything was dandy and normal with my two cats, Remi and Theo!
-Midway through December, Remi started peeing on my bed and couple other specific locations, which I deemed as spraying since he wasn't showing signs of illness, he was a happy kitten as always. I wasn't concerned because he was to be neutered soon.
-Remi was neutered the day after christmas. When he came home, Theo did not recognize him at all and was aggressive, terrified, and distraught. He stopped eating for a bit.
-After about a week things calmed down a bit. Theo was civil with Remi, but he had changed. He was very upset, just in general.
Now, a few weeks later, things have worsened.
Theo is constantly pacing and yowling. Low, mournful meows. He is eating splendidly and looks great (energy levels and coat) but he won't play anymore, and is completely sad and distraught unless he is away from Remi. When Remi isn't there, he's happy and he plays and has fun. What's weird is that he's not visibly upset with Remi. They sometimes sleep with each other (much less than before, though). He never swipes at Remi but if he's frustrated gives a low growl. He scratches at the door to go out and cries and just looks so sad, it makes me sad.
Remi, on the other hand, has started inappropriate elimination again. Usually just once a day he pees outside the boxes. Otherwise he seems fine, full of life and energy, a velcro kitty as always. (he's sitting awkwardly on my arm right now. He must be touching me at all times lol)
I just want my kitties to feel happy again, especially Theo. I don't know what to do honestly and would love any advice.
-Early December, everything was dandy and normal with my two cats, Remi and Theo!
-Midway through December, Remi started peeing on my bed and couple other specific locations, which I deemed as spraying since he wasn't showing signs of illness, he was a happy kitten as always. I wasn't concerned because he was to be neutered soon.
-Remi was neutered the day after christmas. When he came home, Theo did not recognize him at all and was aggressive, terrified, and distraught. He stopped eating for a bit.
-After about a week things calmed down a bit. Theo was civil with Remi, but he had changed. He was very upset, just in general.
Now, a few weeks later, things have worsened.
Theo is constantly pacing and yowling. Low, mournful meows. He is eating splendidly and looks great (energy levels and coat) but he won't play anymore, and is completely sad and distraught unless he is away from Remi. When Remi isn't there, he's happy and he plays and has fun. What's weird is that he's not visibly upset with Remi. They sometimes sleep with each other (much less than before, though). He never swipes at Remi but if he's frustrated gives a low growl. He scratches at the door to go out and cries and just looks so sad, it makes me sad.
Remi, on the other hand, has started inappropriate elimination again. Usually just once a day he pees outside the boxes. Otherwise he seems fine, full of life and energy, a velcro kitty as always. (he's sitting awkwardly on my arm right now. He must be touching me at all times lol)
I just want my kitties to feel happy again, especially Theo. I don't know what to do honestly and would love any advice.
