today was my grandmas funeral

Maria Bayote

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I am very sorry. My heart goes out to you.
Be strong.
 

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Oh hun I'm so sorry for your loss. I've just messaged you too asking how you've been whilst I was away. Sending hugs :hugs:
 

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My condolences. Grief is such a lonely thing since we all experience it differently. Take care of yourself and allow yourself to grieve. We are here for you.
 

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My deepest regrets and sincere condolences. 🤗 We have lost several very close friends this year and it never gets easier.
 

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Ouch! It's been that sort of year, hasn't it?

For what it's worth, see if you can find someone to get a proper hug from - that's something we can't give you online, much as we want to, and it does help.

Margret
 

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I'm sorry. I missed my grandmother's funeral mostly because of the weather; but it was also just a hard one to deal with. They didn't have streaming ones back then.

Maybe sometime soon you will feel like doing a little something on your own. I do find it helpful for me; some little act of remembrance. I have an angel holding a cardinal (her favorite bird) for my garden. I've found it helpful to do something at some point. It could even be painting rocks to leave along a trail or just lighting a candle while you think of about her and/or talk to her. :hugs:
 
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