Awww, cats are the sweetest when they learn to love you. Was Bella a feral cat too or has she always been a big softie?They're all so different - some just hate the cold trickle and then some react 2 seconds after as they freak from the " rapid heartbeat " side effect and others could care less....I know Timmy hates the feeling of it trickling and I'm as fast as lightening....he acts like your female did,as if I did something horrible to him... for a millimeter of a second!
You'd laugh at Bella- when I put her down she runs like the dickens ,completely panic stricken ( probably a racey heart) but then I say:" Awwww Belly Belle,what happened baaaaaby?:" and she runs back for me to pick her up,