Hello all,
I know I posted awhile ago about my resident cat being very displeased with the new 13 week old kitten I introduced into the house, but now I really don't know what to do.
I introduced the two slowly and separated them and allowed them to meet each other from behind the door, through the baby gate, feeding near one another, giving treats, and playing with the kitten in front of my resident cat so he could just watch him from a distance.
Well despite no violence happening, my resident cat seems to hate the new kitten - whenever he is let out when I come home from work he begins to yowl and cry. He paces through the house yowling and crying and now (An exclusively indoor only cat) is constantly trying to get out of the house. He also has become more aggressive and defiant with me. I formerly had no issues trimming his nails or using the soft claws caps on his nails, but he now nips and runs away when I attempt to doing any of this.
In addition I noticed a small bit of urine on one of the ottomans I have in my room. I'm taking him to the vet to be sure it isn't anything medical as he was also yowling in the litter box when trying to urinate so there is a potential medical problem happening, but I don't know. I don't believe he was spraying/marking because it was more like a small puddle and it wasn't on a vertical surface.
Furthermore whenever I let the kitten out, my cat will nip me sometimes as he's pacing around the house yowling. He yowls when he does it so I don't believe he is doing it aggressively, but it's just shocking to see a formerly calm and happy cat so stressed and displeased.
My resident cat was formerly housed with other cats and did absolutely fine. The kitten I chose had a littermate. He is a relatively calm kitten (Even the vet commented on his very laid back attitude).
My cat seems incredibly annoyed whenever the kitten just comes up to him at all. He enjoys playing with the kitten but only rarely will he engage with the kitten or even me if the kitten is out and about.
It's coming up on three weeks now and things seem to be getting worse, not better, since my cat loves to scratch everything up I can't leave him out and about unsupervised without nail caps on and then he wants the kitten locked away all the time. Of course the kitten is very clingy and wants to be around both myself and my resident cat as much as possible.
What do I do here exactly? I feel like I have to choose between my resident cat or the new kitten all of the time and I'd just like us all to get along as a group instead of having to keep them separated or deal with my cat's apparent moodiness and stress.
I'm starting to think I may have to return the new kitten? Of course I don't want it to come to this as I'm already very attached to him, but I don't want to put my resident cat's health/happiness at risk either.
Any suggestions on this would be greatly appreciated!
I know I posted awhile ago about my resident cat being very displeased with the new 13 week old kitten I introduced into the house, but now I really don't know what to do.
I introduced the two slowly and separated them and allowed them to meet each other from behind the door, through the baby gate, feeding near one another, giving treats, and playing with the kitten in front of my resident cat so he could just watch him from a distance.
Well despite no violence happening, my resident cat seems to hate the new kitten - whenever he is let out when I come home from work he begins to yowl and cry. He paces through the house yowling and crying and now (An exclusively indoor only cat) is constantly trying to get out of the house. He also has become more aggressive and defiant with me. I formerly had no issues trimming his nails or using the soft claws caps on his nails, but he now nips and runs away when I attempt to doing any of this.
In addition I noticed a small bit of urine on one of the ottomans I have in my room. I'm taking him to the vet to be sure it isn't anything medical as he was also yowling in the litter box when trying to urinate so there is a potential medical problem happening, but I don't know. I don't believe he was spraying/marking because it was more like a small puddle and it wasn't on a vertical surface.
Furthermore whenever I let the kitten out, my cat will nip me sometimes as he's pacing around the house yowling. He yowls when he does it so I don't believe he is doing it aggressively, but it's just shocking to see a formerly calm and happy cat so stressed and displeased.
My resident cat was formerly housed with other cats and did absolutely fine. The kitten I chose had a littermate. He is a relatively calm kitten (Even the vet commented on his very laid back attitude).
My cat seems incredibly annoyed whenever the kitten just comes up to him at all. He enjoys playing with the kitten but only rarely will he engage with the kitten or even me if the kitten is out and about.
It's coming up on three weeks now and things seem to be getting worse, not better, since my cat loves to scratch everything up I can't leave him out and about unsupervised without nail caps on and then he wants the kitten locked away all the time. Of course the kitten is very clingy and wants to be around both myself and my resident cat as much as possible.
What do I do here exactly? I feel like I have to choose between my resident cat or the new kitten all of the time and I'd just like us all to get along as a group instead of having to keep them separated or deal with my cat's apparent moodiness and stress.
I'm starting to think I may have to return the new kitten? Of course I don't want it to come to this as I'm already very attached to him, but I don't want to put my resident cat's health/happiness at risk either.
Any suggestions on this would be greatly appreciated!