I'm always trying to get help for Jake but nobody seems to have a great way to handle him. He is almost 4 years old, recently fixed, bottle baby, and he has brain damage. His Mom had him outside in the middle of winter and when the litter was found, he was just hardly alive and his siblings had passed on. He's always had aggressive issues towards humans that don't "belong". In other words, he hates everyone except me and my hubby, although there's times Jake will pee on hubbies things.
Anyway, I'm going to be a first time Mom here in a few months and not 100% sure how Jake is going to react. Is there anything I can give him to help him stay calm? I've tried the Feliway but it doesn't do any good. I'm afraid he won't adjust well and we'll have to let him go.
I forgot to add that he's clingy. I am his number 1 and he lays on me every chance he gets (even when the baby is kicking him) and Jake has been known to hiss at hubby if he gets too close. So, of course, I fear for the baby and how Jake will take to my attention being elsewhere. Jake is used to sharing me with other cats/dogs but not with humans.
Thank you for any advice.
Anyway, I'm going to be a first time Mom here in a few months and not 100% sure how Jake is going to react. Is there anything I can give him to help him stay calm? I've tried the Feliway but it doesn't do any good. I'm afraid he won't adjust well and we'll have to let him go.
I forgot to add that he's clingy. I am his number 1 and he lays on me every chance he gets (even when the baby is kicking him) and Jake has been known to hiss at hubby if he gets too close. So, of course, I fear for the baby and how Jake will take to my attention being elsewhere. Jake is used to sharing me with other cats/dogs but not with humans.
Thank you for any advice.