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Hi all,
Mine and my partners cat didn’t come home on Saturday night (usually she’d come back late evening and we’d shut her in but a few times she’d stayed out later and we’d leave window open for her). We were worried when she wasn’t in her bed in the morning. I went out to look for her early Sunday morning but couldn’t find her - I knew something was wrong as she would always be there waking us up for her breakfast without fail!
I joined a missing cat group and the latest post was our worst fear.. someone had found a dead black cat in our area. I was in panic and felt sick and ran out onto the street crying trying to find out where this was. The person who found her called me and said it’s best I didn’t come and identify her as she was in a bad way. The kind person took her to the vets and they checked for microchip although it couldn’t be found due to her injuries
But I knew it was our precious cat. The vet said it was most likely a car incident, although she was found in the middle of a grassy area.
We’d not long celebrated her 1st birthday.
My partner and I are absolutely heartbroken. I recently suffered the loss of a family member and our amazing cat really helped me through it, being my comfort and always there for a cuddle, always happy to see me and keep a routine going. I don’t know how I would cope without her. I feel so bad for how things ended for her, and feel so guilty. She had been in earlier in evening as we were going out - we were going to shut the window but as it was a sunny evening we thought we’d let her have the option to go out. The ‘what ifs’ are really hurting right now.
Our beautiful girl is gone. I can’t bare thinking about her little body. I really hope she didn’t suffer.
Has anyone got any advice of how to cope with the loss of a cat/pet in general? Things will never be the same we are really struggling to see how it will get better and playing things over in my head
Mine and my partners cat didn’t come home on Saturday night (usually she’d come back late evening and we’d shut her in but a few times she’d stayed out later and we’d leave window open for her). We were worried when she wasn’t in her bed in the morning. I went out to look for her early Sunday morning but couldn’t find her - I knew something was wrong as she would always be there waking us up for her breakfast without fail!
I joined a missing cat group and the latest post was our worst fear.. someone had found a dead black cat in our area. I was in panic and felt sick and ran out onto the street crying trying to find out where this was. The person who found her called me and said it’s best I didn’t come and identify her as she was in a bad way. The kind person took her to the vets and they checked for microchip although it couldn’t be found due to her injuries
But I knew it was our precious cat. The vet said it was most likely a car incident, although she was found in the middle of a grassy area.
We’d not long celebrated her 1st birthday.
My partner and I are absolutely heartbroken. I recently suffered the loss of a family member and our amazing cat really helped me through it, being my comfort and always there for a cuddle, always happy to see me and keep a routine going. I don’t know how I would cope without her. I feel so bad for how things ended for her, and feel so guilty. She had been in earlier in evening as we were going out - we were going to shut the window but as it was a sunny evening we thought we’d let her have the option to go out. The ‘what ifs’ are really hurting right now.
Our beautiful girl is gone. I can’t bare thinking about her little body. I really hope she didn’t suffer.
Has anyone got any advice of how to cope with the loss of a cat/pet in general? Things will never be the same we are really struggling to see how it will get better and playing things over in my head