Struggling - Please Help

candie

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Not an easy decision to do what's right for a beloved pet. Had to put one of my cats to sleep end of July. I been watching Brent Atwater youtuYo videos if you believe they are with you in spirit then I recommend watching her videos. It help my grief sometimes I think she gives me tiny signs like heard her loud purs and a vivid dream saw her in this glowing light floating also talked to my uncle about my cat in my dream
 

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Not an easy decision to do what's right for a beloved pet. Had to put one of my cats to sleep end of July. I been watching Brent Atwater youtuYo videos if you believe they are with you in spirit then I recommend watching her videos. It help my grief sometimes I think she gives me tiny signs like heard her loud purs and a vivid dream saw her in this glowing light floating also talked to my uncle about my cat in my dream
Absolutely she is with you, candie candie ! It is good that you are aware and receptive.
 

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It is so hard... it does get a bit better, with time... although, I am just getting over a major breakdown... sigh...
Time.. time heals.. not completely, but.. makes it a lot bearable...
 

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It is so hard... it does get a bit better, with time... although, I am just getting over a major breakdown... sigh...
Time.. time heals.. not completely, but.. makes it a lot bearable...
You're in my *PRAYERS* daily, Cindy -- and your beloved Artie, too, who is watching over you. I don't ever get over my losses. They become a little more handle-able in time, but there are the times I just sit and bawl. Something will remind me of one of them, and then there I go. Missing them is just part of being temporarily separated. I would not have it any other way, personally.
 

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I like to think it's not the end but a beginning for an eternal bliss later on. I like to think my cat Melody who recently had to put to sleep is playing with my other cat or taken care of by our relatives. Sometimes I think it hard on us cause it feels we lost a bit soul and heart like we gave them a bit of that. Believe that they are with you we can't see or hear them but they can see us and hear us!
 

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I like to think it's not the end but a beginning for an eternal bliss later on. I like to think my cat Melody who recently had to put to sleep is playing with my other cat or taken care of by our relatives. Sometimes I think it hard on us cause it feels we lost a bit soul and heart like we gave them a bit of that. Believe that they are with you we can't see or hear them but they can see us and hear us!
We are assured of this, candie candie . And you describe it all so well.
 
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