Hello All!
Seeking some advice on socializing a stray.
A few months ago a fairly skinny cat started coming around and I would feed it, and it stuck around so I kept feeding it. It's got a very strong flight reflex and runs away easily. Even after several months he will almost always run away when I bring the food bowl to him, then come back. He doesn't like being petted and has never tried to brush up against me, sit on my lap, or give a vibrating pur. However he will sit right next to me. He will sleep next to me. He will yawn his eyes affectionately. And he will play with a laser pointer and wand toy. But if I stand up and start moving around he will get nervous and often run out. I am not actually sure if he is neutered, he does let me get close enough to check so I suppose I should do that. I don't think I have the heart to do if he isn't though. Not sure how old he is, I suspect this is his first winter but naybe not.
I would like to bring him inside more but he freaks out if I close the door. He currently sleeps in a box with some blankets in it that I put outside. On a few of the extra cold nights this winter (below 20) I let him stay inside with the door cracked but I can't do that a lot. I know I could just force him into it but I don't really want to. I assume at this point he would keep coming back if I started locking him in for the night but I feel wrong taking an animal out of the wild without consent. The only times he has ever meowed or made any noise was after he had woken up and realized the door was shut. He really won't have it. It's about to start getting cold more consistently (St. Louis) and we will see if his attitude changes. He comes inside to feed but always with the door cracked. He will explore, sit, and nap inside but he won't have the door shut on him.
I have been feeding him mostly purina cat chow because it is cheap and at least the first ingredient is an animal product. He doesn't like wet food as much and will usually leave half the can. He does eat tuna and runny eggs though. I also give him whole milk which you aren't supposed to do but he loves it. He has gained a lot and was pretty skinny when I met him. Included are pics of him when he was still somewhat skinny and then another now that he is healthier.
My question beyond just advice in general is...Can I ever expect him to be more socialized or is he always going to be jumpy? Also how dangerous is the winter for him in his box? Any tips on insultaing it?
Thanks
Seeking some advice on socializing a stray.
A few months ago a fairly skinny cat started coming around and I would feed it, and it stuck around so I kept feeding it. It's got a very strong flight reflex and runs away easily. Even after several months he will almost always run away when I bring the food bowl to him, then come back. He doesn't like being petted and has never tried to brush up against me, sit on my lap, or give a vibrating pur. However he will sit right next to me. He will sleep next to me. He will yawn his eyes affectionately. And he will play with a laser pointer and wand toy. But if I stand up and start moving around he will get nervous and often run out. I am not actually sure if he is neutered, he does let me get close enough to check so I suppose I should do that. I don't think I have the heart to do if he isn't though. Not sure how old he is, I suspect this is his first winter but naybe not.
I would like to bring him inside more but he freaks out if I close the door. He currently sleeps in a box with some blankets in it that I put outside. On a few of the extra cold nights this winter (below 20) I let him stay inside with the door cracked but I can't do that a lot. I know I could just force him into it but I don't really want to. I assume at this point he would keep coming back if I started locking him in for the night but I feel wrong taking an animal out of the wild without consent. The only times he has ever meowed or made any noise was after he had woken up and realized the door was shut. He really won't have it. It's about to start getting cold more consistently (St. Louis) and we will see if his attitude changes. He comes inside to feed but always with the door cracked. He will explore, sit, and nap inside but he won't have the door shut on him.
I have been feeding him mostly purina cat chow because it is cheap and at least the first ingredient is an animal product. He doesn't like wet food as much and will usually leave half the can. He does eat tuna and runny eggs though. I also give him whole milk which you aren't supposed to do but he loves it. He has gained a lot and was pretty skinny when I met him. Included are pics of him when he was still somewhat skinny and then another now that he is healthier.
My question beyond just advice in general is...Can I ever expect him to be more socialized or is he always going to be jumpy? Also how dangerous is the winter for him in his box? Any tips on insultaing it?
Thanks
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