I am at war with the spider mites. Does anyone have any suggestions? I don't want to use anything that will harm bees or other beneficial insects. I tried a home remedy of biodegradable dish detergent, cooking oil, and water, but it killed the blooms on my plant. I ordered something called "Liquid Ladybug" and it works great. However, it is expensive and I have gone through almost the whole bottle in two days. I saw a yellow and black spotted bug on my plant and actually thought he might be a good guy. As it turned out, not so much. He chewed a huge hole in one of Abe Lincoln's leaves! I am so desperate that I was actually contemplating buying ladybugs or praying mantises, which are costly online and are usually free right there in my yard. If I didn't want ladybugs, they would be covering my green French doors. And if I didn't want a praying mantis, I would be terrorized by a giant one in my gazebo. I am afraid of them; I don't like the way they look at me, and if one jumps in my hair, it's over.
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