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di and bob

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When your heart is completely shattered it's hard not to focus on the pain and dwell on the immediate  last moments you had with your loved one. MissSweetKitty is right though, we HAVE to remember the good times, the 'before life' we had when our lives were good, we would go insane with grief if we didn't. Our babies definitely want us to honor the love we all shared, not dwell on the terrible deaths. How do I know this? Just imagine how YOU would want it, would you want your family to dwell on the grief they are going through, or would you want them to remember the happy times, the love you all shared? We do have to grieve, our broken hearts require it, but there WILL come a day, in time, that your memories will bring a smile instead of tears. Those left behind, the living, have to go on. It's never easy. Anything that is worth having, the love you shared, is so great, the grief is that much more also. Take care everyone, and know we all cry together with each new loss. RIP little ones!
 
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