I've loved reading your thread! These most recent pictures of Chai make me smile. I know exactly what you're going through. I adopted a semi-feral three-year old a year ago this month, and it was several weeks before I could touch her...and then just barely. She jumped into my lap for the first time in March, six months after I brought her home. Now she follows me around, head butts me, purrs, asks for stomach rubs, and sleeps with me. Chai is moving much more quickly in that direction than Mocha did! Congratulations! She's so cute.