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I understand. Everyone's situation is different. No don't feel like a shitty cat dad. I actually think your cat is so lucky to have such an attentive dad! I only feed my cats twice a day because I'm too lazy to do it 3x. Cats are just opportunistic and if someone's offering them something they'll snack on it. She may even be snacking on another house kitty's bowl.Thank you so much for all your tips and advice. She is definitely not eating any of the other cats dry food at home. I will monitor her closely but like you said, it will be difficult to ascertain if someone is feeding her.
I'll start by speaking to my neighbour and go from there. I wish I could keep them indoors only but I live with my grandparents who I care for and the only rule they have with the animals in their house is that they go outside to use the toilet and enjoy the outdoors.
I kinda now feel like a sh*tty cat dad now. If she actually is going to other houses to eat food, am I/was I not feeding her enough?