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It’s been 2 weeks since my fiancé and I adopted our three year old, female cat. She is very timid but had warmed up to me considerably....my fiancé...not so much. It probably didn’t help that about a week into her being here she climbed the curtains and he was the one to pull her down. She stretched and bit his hands and arms all up. Now she won’t come out of her safe room when he’s home. She is terrified of him. He’s spent time in the office where all her things are softly talking to her. She even lets him pet her when she’s on the cat tree in there. But other than that she isn’t warming up to him at all.
I’m worried she will never feel safe around him. I would love for her to be comfortable with both of us. And I can tell my fiancé is getting frustrated because he just wants to love on her.
Any tips would be greatly appreciated. We just want her as happy as possible. TIA.
I’m worried she will never feel safe around him. I would love for her to be comfortable with both of us. And I can tell my fiancé is getting frustrated because he just wants to love on her.
Any tips would be greatly appreciated. We just want her as happy as possible. TIA.