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Hi everyone... I just discovered this website and made an account because I’m desperate for advice and figured fellow cat people are the only ones who can truly give me advice!
So I am 22 and graduating nursing school in about a month. After graduation, I am moving in with my boyfriend of 3 and a half years finally. I am very excited to finally live with him but I am also dreading the day I have to leave my beloved Oreo. She will be 16 and a half at that time and has been my little sidekick for a large portion of y life.. my entire memorable lifetime at least. Although she has lived in my family home her entire life with my parents, sister, and me.. she has always been so obviously attached me. Sleeps with me every night, wails at the top of her lungs throughout the night when I am gone, meows at me, sits on my lap, cuddles whenever possible, I mean she is completely my sidekick! Now she does sit on the laps of my other family members and let’s them play with her and pet her, but never does the other stuff with them. At first it may seem like it’s the logical choice to just take her with me, right? Well my family also has a 6 year old male tabby cat who is her friend. Oreo has lived with 2 other cats in her lifetime but has never played with them or interacted with them like she does with Ringo. Ringo is also a very skiddish boy who runs away when any strangers are in the hous and is frightened by a lot.. he completely depends on Oreo to make sure the house is safe. When our family Yorki died this past New Years, Ringo was very concerned and sad and pooped all over the house for weeks. He was really upset even though he barely interacted with the dog.
I apologize for the legit NOVEL I have written above but I just feel like my situation is weird. If I move with Oreo, it will be moving her from the only home she has ever known (reminder, she’s over 16 yo) and into a small apartment with a cat she’s never met but it will be with her human (me) but then I fear Ringo (tabby) will suffer serious stress. I suggested my parents get a kitten to interact with Ringo after a month or two of him adjusting and my mom is really against the idea. If I leave Oreo with my parents, I fear that she will stop eating or become overwhelmed with stress. She’s old but she’s healthy and playful and very active and I fear if I leave her she will become secluded and die. Not to mentioned I would just be so sad not to cuddle with her every night any more.. it would break my heart.
The current plan is for me to come over to my parents once a week after working three night shifts in a row at the hospital and sleep at my parents house for the day so Oreo will have that 6-8 uninterrupted hours with me while I sleep and then I can play with her and pet her when I wake up. The last three years I have spent 2-3 nights a week sleeping at My boyfriend’s so that’s kinda why I came up with that plan hoping she would be okay with that.
Any opinions or suggestions?? I’m such a crazy lover of my cat. She’s just an angel and I don’t want to do her harm or the tabby harm either... growing up is hard
So I am 22 and graduating nursing school in about a month. After graduation, I am moving in with my boyfriend of 3 and a half years finally. I am very excited to finally live with him but I am also dreading the day I have to leave my beloved Oreo. She will be 16 and a half at that time and has been my little sidekick for a large portion of y life.. my entire memorable lifetime at least. Although she has lived in my family home her entire life with my parents, sister, and me.. she has always been so obviously attached me. Sleeps with me every night, wails at the top of her lungs throughout the night when I am gone, meows at me, sits on my lap, cuddles whenever possible, I mean she is completely my sidekick! Now she does sit on the laps of my other family members and let’s them play with her and pet her, but never does the other stuff with them. At first it may seem like it’s the logical choice to just take her with me, right? Well my family also has a 6 year old male tabby cat who is her friend. Oreo has lived with 2 other cats in her lifetime but has never played with them or interacted with them like she does with Ringo. Ringo is also a very skiddish boy who runs away when any strangers are in the hous and is frightened by a lot.. he completely depends on Oreo to make sure the house is safe. When our family Yorki died this past New Years, Ringo was very concerned and sad and pooped all over the house for weeks. He was really upset even though he barely interacted with the dog.
I apologize for the legit NOVEL I have written above but I just feel like my situation is weird. If I move with Oreo, it will be moving her from the only home she has ever known (reminder, she’s over 16 yo) and into a small apartment with a cat she’s never met but it will be with her human (me) but then I fear Ringo (tabby) will suffer serious stress. I suggested my parents get a kitten to interact with Ringo after a month or two of him adjusting and my mom is really against the idea. If I leave Oreo with my parents, I fear that she will stop eating or become overwhelmed with stress. She’s old but she’s healthy and playful and very active and I fear if I leave her she will become secluded and die. Not to mentioned I would just be so sad not to cuddle with her every night any more.. it would break my heart.
The current plan is for me to come over to my parents once a week after working three night shifts in a row at the hospital and sleep at my parents house for the day so Oreo will have that 6-8 uninterrupted hours with me while I sleep and then I can play with her and pet her when I wake up. The last three years I have spent 2-3 nights a week sleeping at My boyfriend’s so that’s kinda why I came up with that plan hoping she would be okay with that.
Any opinions or suggestions?? I’m such a crazy lover of my cat. She’s just an angel and I don’t want to do her harm or the tabby harm either... growing up is hard
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