Hi all
6 weeks ago we adopted a 6 month old rescue kitten. She’s absolutely beautiful, jet black with the biggest eyes I’ve ever seen. She has the most beautiful temperament, purs literally all the time, you could hear it from a mile off, she’s so snuggly, follows us around like a dog, was instantly house trained - a little lady, slept at the end of our bed every night not stirring until we woke up, went outside but only patrolled our acre plot perimeter. She’s just good as gold we couldn’t fault her.
My only concern was that she would be lonely should we ever have to leave for a certain period of time (4+ hours shall we say). The rescue center knew this and 3 days ago I got a text saying they had a 12 week old kitten for us. 12 hours later we had him in our home.
he’s again a gorgeous little cat. A tabby with a white tummy and pink nose. Needs a little more training but he’s only a baby so completely understandable. But he’s friendly and playful very similar to our OG cat.
But our cat hasn’t taken kindly to the kitten at all. We’ve separated them keeping the kitten in a designated room but my lovely cat’s temperament has flipped on its head. She’s hissing and spitting at us and aside from food doesn’t seem to want to be around us anymore.
I feel I’ve ruined a great bond by bringing the kitten into the home and as such I don’t feel I’ve bonded properly with the kitten - not in the same way I did with our cat.
i honestly feel lost. I’m crying all the time, I’ve a constant head ache, I’m just exhausted I feel like I’m grieving.
I so want to give the little kitten a home. He’s been through a lot and I feel we could be great for him. But my OG cat is my immediate priority. I feel so guilty for wishing I could turn back time and say no to the second adoption.
Has anyone else experienced anything similar? I’m feeling so lost.
6 weeks ago we adopted a 6 month old rescue kitten. She’s absolutely beautiful, jet black with the biggest eyes I’ve ever seen. She has the most beautiful temperament, purs literally all the time, you could hear it from a mile off, she’s so snuggly, follows us around like a dog, was instantly house trained - a little lady, slept at the end of our bed every night not stirring until we woke up, went outside but only patrolled our acre plot perimeter. She’s just good as gold we couldn’t fault her.
My only concern was that she would be lonely should we ever have to leave for a certain period of time (4+ hours shall we say). The rescue center knew this and 3 days ago I got a text saying they had a 12 week old kitten for us. 12 hours later we had him in our home.
he’s again a gorgeous little cat. A tabby with a white tummy and pink nose. Needs a little more training but he’s only a baby so completely understandable. But he’s friendly and playful very similar to our OG cat.
But our cat hasn’t taken kindly to the kitten at all. We’ve separated them keeping the kitten in a designated room but my lovely cat’s temperament has flipped on its head. She’s hissing and spitting at us and aside from food doesn’t seem to want to be around us anymore.
I feel I’ve ruined a great bond by bringing the kitten into the home and as such I don’t feel I’ve bonded properly with the kitten - not in the same way I did with our cat.
i honestly feel lost. I’m crying all the time, I’ve a constant head ache, I’m just exhausted I feel like I’m grieving.
I so want to give the little kitten a home. He’s been through a lot and I feel we could be great for him. But my OG cat is my immediate priority. I feel so guilty for wishing I could turn back time and say no to the second adoption.
Has anyone else experienced anything similar? I’m feeling so lost.