I see. Well, that does warrant an extra session or two where you can watch. However, be cautious with the grabbing. You don't want to increase the stress, as FeebysOwner has pointed out. I suspect this is the "get away" kind of charging, not an attempt to roll on the floor with an actual fight. At some point, your going to need to let things happen and verify that, so you can be comfortable letting them work things out.Ok thanks. I appreciate your replies. To answer you, Art, I had one instance of charging. When Fiona went into the dining room, Ivy watched for a while and then slowly got up and started walking over. Fiona notices and crouched and started hissing and Ivy charged her. They both ran upstairs but Ivy didn’t proceed past the top stairs. Fiona ran into a bedroom but Ivy stayed at the top of the stairs. I walked up and picked her up and separated them. Ivy was all puffed but she unpuffed and relaxed when I picked her up. Fiona actually came down right after and was fine with me (Ivy was separated at this point).
This also started to happen today but I just grabbed her once I saw her starting to walk towards her before this could repeat.