So I put spooky in a new home last year and she hates me for it so I got a new apartment she has bonded we with the new person she’s with how do I regain her trust to take her back home or to leave her where she is and get a whole new kitten I could use some advice please she refuses to even come near me she hides under the bed when I go to see her at her new home I just get in the car and cry