Hello, I'm new to the forum. I'm seeking advice as to the best way to handle my situation. Any input is greatly appreciated. During the height of the covid lock down, I basically befriended a stray cat who wandered in the backyard of the rental property I live in. The owner wasn't too thrilled with this cat being there but I was able to convince her that the cat won't stay for long and most likely just want food/attention/love. I started feeding this cat every night at a designated food station/shelter in the backyard. So everything was fine and great, the owner really didn't mind anymore, the cat had no threats and was pretty happy being there. Because I got a second job, I wasn't able to see the cat as often as I'd like anymore and she'd come and go as she pleased not really staying on the property for long. About a month passed not seeing her. I kind of got worried that something bad happened. Last week, I finally saw her again. I guess she saw me walking to my door so she cut my way and meowed. I was happy to see her again and noticed that her belly was big. My mood went from happy to surprise to worry. She was rubbing her face on my leg asking for food so I gave her some. Then she wanted to come in but I couldn't let her as the owner explicitly said not to do that. I put out some blankets for her in a safe spot in the backyard and she kind of settled down and became calm.
So for the past week, this cat is not leaving and I believe she wants to give birth on the property. I know the owner would be furious if this happened and so I want to respect her wishes because overall she has been very fair and clear with me. I called friends and family to find a place for her but to no avail. I called a rescue group who couldn't take her in. They said the best thing to do is to terminate the pregnancy by spaying her. So then I called to schedule a spay that will happen in a few days but now I find myself having a change of heart. She looks VERY pregnant now I just don't know how far along she is but she is very close to giving birth. I feel bad because I mean she just wants a place to give birth, it's not that big of an issue but I can't seem to help her. I then thought maybe I can pay someone to foster her and her future kittens temporarily but I don't know what the acceptable price range is. I just need some advice.. What is the best way to handle this? She's really a lovely cat the last thing I want to do is hurt her unintentionally.
So for the past week, this cat is not leaving and I believe she wants to give birth on the property. I know the owner would be furious if this happened and so I want to respect her wishes because overall she has been very fair and clear with me. I called friends and family to find a place for her but to no avail. I called a rescue group who couldn't take her in. They said the best thing to do is to terminate the pregnancy by spaying her. So then I called to schedule a spay that will happen in a few days but now I find myself having a change of heart. She looks VERY pregnant now I just don't know how far along she is but she is very close to giving birth. I feel bad because I mean she just wants a place to give birth, it's not that big of an issue but I can't seem to help her. I then thought maybe I can pay someone to foster her and her future kittens temporarily but I don't know what the acceptable price range is. I just need some advice.. What is the best way to handle this? She's really a lovely cat the last thing I want to do is hurt her unintentionally.
