Do kittens or cats ever prefer one gener to another? My new kitten will always show favoritism to my fiance', in fact, she could care less about me most of the time. I am the one that wanted her and takes care of her, so this seems a little odd to me. I have noticed that even when we take her over to his parents, she wants nothing to do with any women there, but is always trying to cuddle and purr around the males. Is this weird? What is going on?