My girlfriend and I have raised a stray kitten, his name is Bing Bong. We love him very much, however, he has begun to bite and ankle-grab (particularly my girlfriend) and the distress it has caused her puts pressure on me to make the choice between them- and it would have to be my poor Bing that gets the boot...
Bing was approx 2 months old when I found him, extremely sweet, never bit or ankle-grabbed, slept all day, and was VERY hungry. He seemed to have a low-response to external stimuli (i.e., snap next to his ear, no response of any kind), but this diminished around the time I moved into my new house (when he was approx. 3 months old).
Bing is currently approx 5 months old, and is displaying the aggressive behaviors I listed in my introduction. He was living at the original house for a very short time, and I don't feel the move had anything to do with his mood changes. He has a self-feeder so is not hungry. He has plenty of high spaces to climb in the rafters of our loft, but I may be able to make it more accessible for him . He has plenty of toys and designated places to sleep. We have attempted many forms of discipline including taps on the nose, but are currently saying "ouch" loudly and attempting to remove ourselves from the room and ignore him.
His aggressive behavior seems to be playful, but his bites and scratches leave bleeding wounds and my hands prove this. I ignore him more successfully than my girlfriend who reacts similarly to prey when he attacks her (i.e., screams and runs).
Any advice regarding the correction of Bing Bong's behaviors would be greatly appreciated by myself, and Bing!!! Please let me know if anyone needs any additional information.
Thank you,
-cagregg
Bing was approx 2 months old when I found him, extremely sweet, never bit or ankle-grabbed, slept all day, and was VERY hungry. He seemed to have a low-response to external stimuli (i.e., snap next to his ear, no response of any kind), but this diminished around the time I moved into my new house (when he was approx. 3 months old).
Bing is currently approx 5 months old, and is displaying the aggressive behaviors I listed in my introduction. He was living at the original house for a very short time, and I don't feel the move had anything to do with his mood changes. He has a self-feeder so is not hungry. He has plenty of high spaces to climb in the rafters of our loft, but I may be able to make it more accessible for him . He has plenty of toys and designated places to sleep. We have attempted many forms of discipline including taps on the nose, but are currently saying "ouch" loudly and attempting to remove ourselves from the room and ignore him.
His aggressive behavior seems to be playful, but his bites and scratches leave bleeding wounds and my hands prove this. I ignore him more successfully than my girlfriend who reacts similarly to prey when he attacks her (i.e., screams and runs).
Any advice regarding the correction of Bing Bong's behaviors would be greatly appreciated by myself, and Bing!!! Please let me know if anyone needs any additional information.
Thank you,
-cagregg