Please help I’m stressed to hell over this. One of my cats is 14 she is a very nervous cat but usually very affectionte with me. She became ill last week and developed breathing problems. She was found to have fluid on the lung due to heart disease and had 300 ml drained. As a result she is on lifetime meds liquid medication twice a day and a tablet. The problem is she is a nightmare getting medication into her. She is now terrified of me and runs away as soon as she sees me. It’s heartbreaking- I’ve tried giving her the meds in a treat/ cat yoghurt etc she refuses it point blank so I have to force her mouth open and give them that way. So she is now a nervous wreck around me!! Part of me thinks is it kinder to stop medications to stop this amount of stress and distress I’m causing her but the fluid will accumulate and cause her distress anyway !! Has anyone else had a similar situation? Anyhelp, thoughts appreciated I just feel like I’m stressing this poor cat out and it’s killing our relationship x