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When I was in college I adopted a kitten, because he couldn’t live with me in my college apartment, he lived at my moms house. Theo is now 5 years old.
In April my mom rescued a kitten who was four weeks old, from a abandoned car. Bjorn is now 6 months old.
Theo and I were able to move out of my mom house into an apartment. Theo is adjusted great to our new home. This weekend I went to my moms to spend the day, I brought Theo with me so he could play with Bjorn. Everything went great, Theo enjoyed having more room to roam and Bjorn was happy to have his brother to play with. I did this again yesterday, again everything went great.
This morning my mom told me Bjorn was meowing a lot like after we moved. Like he was sad he couldn’t find me or Theo. And when she went to make her bed and Bjorn was pawing at her bed trying to cover up something. She realized he had peed on her bed.
We have never had this problem before, the cats always used they litter box.
My question is, is it bad to have they had play dates? Is it too hard for Bjorn to adjust to having Theo over, then leaving? It saddens me if they can’t play together anymore, but if it’s healthy for them emotionally, I will be anything for they happiness.
In April my mom rescued a kitten who was four weeks old, from a abandoned car. Bjorn is now 6 months old.
Theo and I were able to move out of my mom house into an apartment. Theo is adjusted great to our new home. This weekend I went to my moms to spend the day, I brought Theo with me so he could play with Bjorn. Everything went great, Theo enjoyed having more room to roam and Bjorn was happy to have his brother to play with. I did this again yesterday, again everything went great.
This morning my mom told me Bjorn was meowing a lot like after we moved. Like he was sad he couldn’t find me or Theo. And when she went to make her bed and Bjorn was pawing at her bed trying to cover up something. She realized he had peed on her bed.
We have never had this problem before, the cats always used they litter box.
My question is, is it bad to have they had play dates? Is it too hard for Bjorn to adjust to having Theo over, then leaving? It saddens me if they can’t play together anymore, but if it’s healthy for them emotionally, I will be anything for they happiness.