First, a big thank you to everyone who offered advice and words of encouragement to this noobie when he came hoping for help. Thank you!
I've lived with a cat all my life, although Aggie and Allie were the first time I ever had more than one at a time.
I'm very happy to report that they're dramatically better. They were actually play fighting a bit yesterday. While they still seem to have slight reservations around each other...it's much better.
Letting them "growl it out" was difficult for me, but must've been what they needed.
Thanks once again!
I've lived with a cat all my life, although Aggie and Allie were the first time I ever had more than one at a time.
I'm very happy to report that they're dramatically better. They were actually play fighting a bit yesterday. While they still seem to have slight reservations around each other...it's much better.
Letting them "growl it out" was difficult for me, but must've been what they needed.
Thanks once again!