Hello all, I've posted before about our resident cat Agatha (female, 8) and her recently adopted siblings, Cheddar (male, 9) and Bubbles (female, 10).
About three months after we brought Cheddar and Bubbles home, we achieved a comfortable environment where Agatha tolerated the new cats and all shared our home in peace. That changed dramatically after Agatha and Bubbles had an intense fight that left us afraid to let them freely roam the house.
Looking back, it was possibly triggered over territory; Bubbles and Cheddar lived in our spare bedroom for the first few weeks they were home and Bubbles mostly continued to sleep there during the day thereafter. While I was brushing Bubbles before bed, Agatha jumped on the bed with us which triggered the chase and fight, as best I can tell. My guess is that in Bubbles' little cat brain that was an invasion of her space.
We're in the middle of reintroducing Bubbles and Agatha. Cheddar is oblivious to the issue lol. He is already bonded to Bubbles and tolerated/doesn't threaten Agatha. I'm hoping for advice on three aspects of reintroduction:
1. Best strategies for scent-swapping. I've left a blanket that Bubbles sleeps on in Agatha's side a few times. Agatha will hiss at the blanket. Should I wait out that hissing to get her accustomed to Bubbles' scent or should I find another way?
2. Best strategies for site-swapping. Agatha is reluctant or scared to venture from her side of the house, even when we have Bubbles isolated. Bubbles will briefly venture into Agatha's side. There is some hissing and staring when they cross paths but we only let the gates down under supervision so another fight has been prevented, so far.
3. Stopping an energetic cat from playing too hard with a calmer cat. Despite her age, Bubbles is very active. Daily playtime helps but she still maintains a baseline of energy that's above Agatha or Cheddar. One problem I anticipate as we continue reintroduction is Bubbles initiating play with Agatha, who will react negatively out of fear and their energy imbalance.
Finally, I would love to hear some success stories or encouragement. This was a bummer to go through especially after three months or progress.
Thanks in advance!
(peaceful moment before the incident)
About three months after we brought Cheddar and Bubbles home, we achieved a comfortable environment where Agatha tolerated the new cats and all shared our home in peace. That changed dramatically after Agatha and Bubbles had an intense fight that left us afraid to let them freely roam the house.
Looking back, it was possibly triggered over territory; Bubbles and Cheddar lived in our spare bedroom for the first few weeks they were home and Bubbles mostly continued to sleep there during the day thereafter. While I was brushing Bubbles before bed, Agatha jumped on the bed with us which triggered the chase and fight, as best I can tell. My guess is that in Bubbles' little cat brain that was an invasion of her space.
We're in the middle of reintroducing Bubbles and Agatha. Cheddar is oblivious to the issue lol. He is already bonded to Bubbles and tolerated/doesn't threaten Agatha. I'm hoping for advice on three aspects of reintroduction:
1. Best strategies for scent-swapping. I've left a blanket that Bubbles sleeps on in Agatha's side a few times. Agatha will hiss at the blanket. Should I wait out that hissing to get her accustomed to Bubbles' scent or should I find another way?
2. Best strategies for site-swapping. Agatha is reluctant or scared to venture from her side of the house, even when we have Bubbles isolated. Bubbles will briefly venture into Agatha's side. There is some hissing and staring when they cross paths but we only let the gates down under supervision so another fight has been prevented, so far.
3. Stopping an energetic cat from playing too hard with a calmer cat. Despite her age, Bubbles is very active. Daily playtime helps but she still maintains a baseline of energy that's above Agatha or Cheddar. One problem I anticipate as we continue reintroduction is Bubbles initiating play with Agatha, who will react negatively out of fear and their energy imbalance.
Finally, I would love to hear some success stories or encouragement. This was a bummer to go through especially after three months or progress.
Thanks in advance!
(peaceful moment before the incident)