A rubber glove is supposed to work very well in picking up hair - just stroke the cat tree.
Don't worry about the hiding - Barry disappears when the doorbell rings. It takes him about two hours to come out if I'm home, otherwise he stays hidden.
One very good and sort of disappointing fact about ferals: They typically bond to only one person. Drives my wife crazy that Barry is affectionate to me but relatively cool to her. He likes her, will follow her around the house and will occasionally sleep against her legs in bed but its not the same. Friends of ours who are cat-people were over last Boxing Day for a while before I got home from work. About 15 minutes after I got home Barry comes out of the room. Apparently he hid for hours before I got home. He's not mean to my wife, she's just on the B-List. But - if you are the feral's person, you're in and get to take full advantage of the cat's attention.
It takes time, but you two will get there. And don't let anyone tell you otherwise - Barry is a "complete" cat. He's not dysfunctional or broken, he's just picky. This is what you'll have to look forward to (Barry's on the left):
Look at those bright happy eyes!! He's a happy boy.
Sorry - I go on about Barry, but he is very special to me. Maggie will be to you.
Don't worry about the hiding - Barry disappears when the doorbell rings. It takes him about two hours to come out if I'm home, otherwise he stays hidden.
One very good and sort of disappointing fact about ferals: They typically bond to only one person. Drives my wife crazy that Barry is affectionate to me but relatively cool to her. He likes her, will follow her around the house and will occasionally sleep against her legs in bed but its not the same. Friends of ours who are cat-people were over last Boxing Day for a while before I got home from work. About 15 minutes after I got home Barry comes out of the room. Apparently he hid for hours before I got home. He's not mean to my wife, she's just on the B-List. But - if you are the feral's person, you're in and get to take full advantage of the cat's attention.
It takes time, but you two will get there. And don't let anyone tell you otherwise - Barry is a "complete" cat. He's not dysfunctional or broken, he's just picky. This is what you'll have to look forward to (Barry's on the left):
Look at those bright happy eyes!! He's a happy boy.
Sorry - I go on about Barry, but he is very special to me. Maggie will be to you.