Hello!
After the passing of my beautiful baby tabby girl, Shiloh, I decided it was finally time to heal and move on a little. I recently brought home a one-year-old Bengal named Theo! I chose Theo due to my sister's cat allergies and she hasn't reacted to him at all. He's such a sweetheart too- he loves rubbing on you and rolling around, and his cat tree!
However, he appears to be very, very under-socialized. For the entire first day of having him home, he hid under the bed. I waited for him to be more comfortable and then blocked the bed off (don't worry! He has other soft dark places to hang out, where he can feel safe!). He loves attention but is extremely wary of sudden movements and loud noises- he HATES being picked up and struggles but never uses his claws on me, bless him.
It's almost like he's torn. Sometimes he's outgoing and playful and curious, but other times he's so nervous
I had to hold him down to give him his flea treatment and now he's shy with me
Honestly, I love this cat so much, I just don't know what to do! I've always had very outgoing and sociable cats, that I was able to harness-train and go places with. I want to help little Theo with his anxieties and hopefully, socialize and train him! But all in his own time, of course.
I'd love advice from anyone with experience on undersocialized kitties <3
(To my knowledge, he was never abused or harmed in any way. He's originally from a wonderful breeder, but he didn't work out with the family who got him so I adopted him!)
Pictures attached- isn't he so perfect? <3 He sure does like his windowsill!
After the passing of my beautiful baby tabby girl, Shiloh, I decided it was finally time to heal and move on a little. I recently brought home a one-year-old Bengal named Theo! I chose Theo due to my sister's cat allergies and she hasn't reacted to him at all. He's such a sweetheart too- he loves rubbing on you and rolling around, and his cat tree!
However, he appears to be very, very under-socialized. For the entire first day of having him home, he hid under the bed. I waited for him to be more comfortable and then blocked the bed off (don't worry! He has other soft dark places to hang out, where he can feel safe!). He loves attention but is extremely wary of sudden movements and loud noises- he HATES being picked up and struggles but never uses his claws on me, bless him.
It's almost like he's torn. Sometimes he's outgoing and playful and curious, but other times he's so nervous
I had to hold him down to give him his flea treatment and now he's shy with me
Honestly, I love this cat so much, I just don't know what to do! I've always had very outgoing and sociable cats, that I was able to harness-train and go places with. I want to help little Theo with his anxieties and hopefully, socialize and train him! But all in his own time, of course.
I'd love advice from anyone with experience on undersocialized kitties <3
(To my knowledge, he was never abused or harmed in any way. He's originally from a wonderful breeder, but he didn't work out with the family who got him so I adopted him!)
Pictures attached- isn't he so perfect? <3 He sure does like his windowsill!