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Hi Guys,
I have rescued and fostered many extremely young sick kittens before as i specialise in this but this particular issue has never appeared before and looking for the answers online but i cannot find anything for this particular problem. I have a 3yo Ragdoll Male and a 4yo DSH, both extremely well behaved and have been helping me socialise and raise extremely young kittens into amazing beings that their future parents adore. Ironically, i got us a ginger female kitten that has a difficult behavioural problem. I wanted her to live with us permanently but that suddenly is causing a lot of issues with the litterboxes. She either charges at the boys when they are trying to use the litterbox, attacks them (playfully), sits infront of them, watches them or worst of all, she climbs in and tries to smell their butts/use the litterbox as well, or bury their pee/poo (only one of them does not bury).
She has otherwise perfect litterbox manners but her possesive? stalking? kitten? behaviour around the THREE litterboxes is now causing the boys to no longer use them (they go to another part of the house which has TWO litterboxes), hold it in or sit in the litterbox to wait for me to carry her away before they resume their business. When i take her away quietly, calmly and gently she begins to struggle in my hands and starts to fight me by scratching my arms (which she doesn't do any other time). Now i know, this is normal kitten behaviour for some kittens as my ragdoll done this, but even though he has learning disabilities he learned within a week to stop doing this. But it seems she is just not getting the message from me gently moving her away, the boys hissing at her, them using different litterboxes and so on for almost a month now. Making all the litterboxes hooded is not possible because the boys HATE hooded litterboxes and usually avoid using them (althought they are forcing themselves to use the ones away from her right now).
My partner is terrified that the boys will begin eliminating (understandably) outside the litterbox due to stress and is insisting that i rehome her with a loving family with no other cats. Which i can do, but i really do not want to because the boys are eating so well now, they play together with her for hours and are sleeping like babies from all the extra exercise (am i selfish?). I am wondering this:
Have you guys ever had this problem with new kittens?
Is this a serious issue that cannot be resolved after her doing this for a month?
Is she doing this due to her age or to be territorial?
I have rescued and fostered many extremely young sick kittens before as i specialise in this but this particular issue has never appeared before and looking for the answers online but i cannot find anything for this particular problem. I have a 3yo Ragdoll Male and a 4yo DSH, both extremely well behaved and have been helping me socialise and raise extremely young kittens into amazing beings that their future parents adore. Ironically, i got us a ginger female kitten that has a difficult behavioural problem. I wanted her to live with us permanently but that suddenly is causing a lot of issues with the litterboxes. She either charges at the boys when they are trying to use the litterbox, attacks them (playfully), sits infront of them, watches them or worst of all, she climbs in and tries to smell their butts/use the litterbox as well, or bury their pee/poo (only one of them does not bury).
She has otherwise perfect litterbox manners but her possesive? stalking? kitten? behaviour around the THREE litterboxes is now causing the boys to no longer use them (they go to another part of the house which has TWO litterboxes), hold it in or sit in the litterbox to wait for me to carry her away before they resume their business. When i take her away quietly, calmly and gently she begins to struggle in my hands and starts to fight me by scratching my arms (which she doesn't do any other time). Now i know, this is normal kitten behaviour for some kittens as my ragdoll done this, but even though he has learning disabilities he learned within a week to stop doing this. But it seems she is just not getting the message from me gently moving her away, the boys hissing at her, them using different litterboxes and so on for almost a month now. Making all the litterboxes hooded is not possible because the boys HATE hooded litterboxes and usually avoid using them (althought they are forcing themselves to use the ones away from her right now).
My partner is terrified that the boys will begin eliminating (understandably) outside the litterbox due to stress and is insisting that i rehome her with a loving family with no other cats. Which i can do, but i really do not want to because the boys are eating so well now, they play together with her for hours and are sleeping like babies from all the extra exercise (am i selfish?). I am wondering this:
Have you guys ever had this problem with new kittens?
Is this a serious issue that cannot be resolved after her doing this for a month?
Is she doing this due to her age or to be territorial?