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I have been going through the cat introductions and I have been gradually letting my new cat Kirby (male,1.5 years old) out to be with Sango (female, 4 years old). However the problem is, Kirby is too much is her face. He tends to go to her face and lick her. She‘s okay with this, but then he sometimes bops her back side and chases her. I don’t think it’s aggressive and he’s trying to play, but she takes offense to it and runs under the couch in fear. I was actually in the middle of a play session with him in my office and she poked her head into the room when this happened. He licked her then proceeded to chase her. When this happens I raise my voice to alert him and put him back in his room.
Is this common with a cat his age? Any advice? The volunteers for the rescue told me he’s just learning how to play. He was a stray that got mixed up in a feral colony. I have at least 15 toys and have been trying everything to keep him engaged, but Sango distracts him quite easily.
I think at this point I need to play with him in a closed room but then that’s tough because all he wants to do is get out and doesn’t want to play.
Edit: I forgot to mention, there are times where they will lay near each other on the couch and be totally civil so I don’t think we need to start at step 1 again. However, he tends to always want to be where she is and she’s just not always crazy about it. Sometimes she hides and sometimes she‘s okay with it as long as he doesn’t try to play with her.
Is this common with a cat his age? Any advice? The volunteers for the rescue told me he’s just learning how to play. He was a stray that got mixed up in a feral colony. I have at least 15 toys and have been trying everything to keep him engaged, but Sango distracts him quite easily.
I think at this point I need to play with him in a closed room but then that’s tough because all he wants to do is get out and doesn’t want to play.
Edit: I forgot to mention, there are times where they will lay near each other on the couch and be totally civil so I don’t think we need to start at step 1 again. However, he tends to always want to be where she is and she’s just not always crazy about it. Sometimes she hides and sometimes she‘s okay with it as long as he doesn’t try to play with her.
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