I am about to adopt a second kitten from the same breeder from whom I got my first kitten. She is a certified breeder, cats raised in home, very few litters a year, etc. so I am happy there. I am going to visit her and choose from among her litter a companion for my first kitten. My first kitten is a female and when my husband, teen daughter and I went to the breeder's, we chose her because she climbed up on our laps and lay there purring. The cat our breeder chose for us (based on my criteria) ran and hid and apparently does not like strangers, so we left with the sweetie. Only issue is she is not the cuddler we thought she was (we've only had her for 3 months and she is only 7 months old so I am patient). She is a timid, but kind of bossy kitten. I'm looking for a sweet cuddler who will be calm but also playful. What qualities should I look for in a new kitten? The breeder says that as the kittens are all happy and comfortable with her (which they are) she can't tell how they will be at my house. Any thoughts are welcome. Thanks!