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Yeah so today I'm still at home (and will be for the next two days it seems). Basically I let out Yoda as soon as I woke up and he came for some cuddles. Then he pounced on Charly twice like in the video where they were on the bed where he full on frog splash jumped on him. Charly was very unhappy and looked (I think) defensive - aggressive. Yoda did not take a hint and did it again, Charly recoiled and was very vocal and kind of laid back all paws ready to strike. So I picked yoda up (he wasn't agitated) and put him in his room 5 mins to cool off (I think he gets overstimulated from all the cuddles he demands sometimes) and let Charly relax. I felt like had I not stepped in Charly may have really lashed out as Yoda wasn't listening, but chances are I'm over reacting a tad again.
Either way, they were fine after.
Charly is more chill today about Yoda sniffing him. He's mostly letting him sniff and they've touched noses a few times. There have been fewer hisses still today and they slept on the bed again but not as close together, but still. When Charly woke up and was grooming, Yoda walked up and sniffed him. Charly looked at him and eventually turned around but didn't hiss and Yoda just walked away again. Yoda also let him use the litterbox without any need for me to distract him.
They've also explored the balcony together a bit (it's completely covered in chicken wire and cat netting) though Yoda is still tentative.
They've had snacks together sitting so close and Yoda tried to brush up against him, to which Charly just moved sideways a bit. Poor little baby he's such a lovey dovey cat and Charly is more like "excuse me no way"
They've been out all day together except two hours around lunchtime when I had a nap.
I guess the good thing is, when I come back from Germany I will have a full week off work left, so we can continue with long periods together before I have to return to work!
So do you think I should have them completely separate while I'm away? That will be so hard on Yoda being locked up again for 8 days although I do see your point. I would probably only stress about it the whole time I'm away :/
They've just gone to lie down again on the bed. Separated by mountains of blankets
Although it is good that Charly feels comfy enough to lie down first and close his eyes with Yoda walking around and he doesn't get scared when Yoda goes up to the bed too. It seems Charly is usually the one who wants to have a break first and Yoda just follows his lead.
And no, it's not a mirror lol. Charly is the one closer to me.
Either way, they were fine after.
Charly is more chill today about Yoda sniffing him. He's mostly letting him sniff and they've touched noses a few times. There have been fewer hisses still today and they slept on the bed again but not as close together, but still. When Charly woke up and was grooming, Yoda walked up and sniffed him. Charly looked at him and eventually turned around but didn't hiss and Yoda just walked away again. Yoda also let him use the litterbox without any need for me to distract him.
They've also explored the balcony together a bit (it's completely covered in chicken wire and cat netting) though Yoda is still tentative.
They've had snacks together sitting so close and Yoda tried to brush up against him, to which Charly just moved sideways a bit. Poor little baby he's such a lovey dovey cat and Charly is more like "excuse me no way"
They've been out all day together except two hours around lunchtime when I had a nap.
I guess the good thing is, when I come back from Germany I will have a full week off work left, so we can continue with long periods together before I have to return to work!
So do you think I should have them completely separate while I'm away? That will be so hard on Yoda being locked up again for 8 days although I do see your point. I would probably only stress about it the whole time I'm away :/
They've just gone to lie down again on the bed. Separated by mountains of blankets
Although it is good that Charly feels comfy enough to lie down first and close his eyes with Yoda walking around and he doesn't get scared when Yoda goes up to the bed too. It seems Charly is usually the one who wants to have a break first and Yoda just follows his lead.
And no, it's not a mirror lol. Charly is the one closer to me.