My love has terminal cancer

[DeesCats]

I am so sorry for your loss of Cari, please accept my condolences.

 

[caramelandmisty]

I’m so sorry, sweetie. She loves you, and all she will remember is love. Know that she will still watch over you from the other side. She won’t allow harm to befall you. Her spirit will still keep you safe, I promise.

Thank you. I really needed to hear that she will be with me. I don't feel here presence and I'm empty.

 

[caramelandmisty]

I feel guilty for leaving for two weeks about a month ago. I feel like she got worse and was missing me. We had the vet come over everyday to watch her and take care of her and her sister but I don't think it was enough.

 

[SofiesMumma]

Thank you so much for your kind words. Most people think I'm crazy for being so upset but I honestly can't help it. I miss her so much. Thank you thank you thank you.

Oh I am so sorry for your loss!!! 🫂 I feel bad for those who have not had such a true and strong bond of love with their furr babies. I still cry after over 2 and a half years after saying goodbye to Oscar, and most definitely 8 months after Lilyth's passing. I accepted it is normal and 100% okay!

Tears are words the heart cannot speak.

Feel your feelings, all the feelings. Sorrow, grief, remorse, and even joy and peace. It's okay to cry, it's okay to laugh! Whatever you feel at any given time is exactly what you need to feel, don't try to change that. Your sweet Cari will always be with you. Your bond will grow stronger yet. You still have so much to learn from her and all she has done for you while in her little furry body on earth. I firmly believe their spirits live on and touch us every day. She is at peace now, and she will bring you peace too.

My heart is with you during this very difficult time. You are not alone 🫂

 

[caramelandmisty]

Oh I am so sorry for your loss!!! 🫂 I feel bad for those who have not had such a true and strong bond of love with their furr babies. I still cry after over 2 and a half years after saying goodbye to Oscar, and most definitely 8 months after Lilyth's passing. I accepted it is normal and 100% okay!

Tears are words the heart cannot speak.

Feel your feelings, all the feelings. Sorrow, grief, remorse, and even joy and peace. It's okay to cry, it's okay to laugh! Whatever you feel at any given time is exactly what you need to feel, don't try to change that. Your sweet Cari will always be with you. Your bond will grow stronger yet. You still have so much to learn from her and all she has done for you while in her little furry body on earth. I firmly believe their spirits live on and touch us every day. She is at peace now, and she will bring you peace too.

My heart is with you during this very difficult time. You are not alone 🫂

Thank you so much for your kind words. I greatly appreciate it.

 

[catloverfromwayback]

Thank you all for your kind words and thoughts. Cari passed away Wed, July 31 on the way to the vet. I'm so heartbroken I can't stop crying still. I miss her so much. I'm so so sad and

hi everyone, I'm writing to let you know Cari passed Wed afternoon on the way to the vet. Thank you all so much for your help through this difficult time. I've never had to deal with this before but have had so many deaths in my family the past five years, I feel this one has just pushed me to the edge. Cari was my kitty. She was with me every single day. She was my work buddy who sat by me while I worked from home and was always by my side everywhere I went. I'm still upset and can't stop crying. I'm trying to let it all out but it doesn't seem to want to stop.

I am so, so sorry. That sounds so much like Katie's passing. It makes one feel so guilty, even though we do all we can, and feel we should have been able to save them - but eventually, we simply can't. I wish I had comforting words for you, but only time will ease this.

 

[rubysmama]

I'm so sorry about Cari. She was such a beautiful cat. RIP sweet girl.

Most people think I'm crazy for being so upset but I honestly can't help it. I miss her so much.

Only people who've never loved a pet will think you're crazy. The rest of us totally understand. It's almost 3 months since I lost my Ruby girl, and I still miss her so much, and still cry sometimes, but with time it is getting easier. Sending you hugs.

 

[iPappy]

I am so sorry for your loss. I too wish I had the right words to say to take the pain away, but unfortunately I don't. Please understand that people here know exactly how you're feeling and you're not alone.
As for the people who think you're "crazy", forget about them. Obviously, they haven't experienced the unconditional love that only a pet can give. I feel sorry for them.

 

[caramelandmisty]

I am so sorry for your loss. I too wish I had the right words to say to take the pain away, but unfortunately I don't. Please understand that people here know exactly how you're feeling and you're not alone.
As for the people who think you're "crazy", forget about them. Obviously, they haven't experienced the unconditional love that only a pet can give. I feel sorry for them.

Thank you

 

[fionasmom]

I am so sorry for your loss your beautiful girl. Everyone here understands how you are feeling right now and how much the love of a cat means to all of us.

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