My husband has kidney pain

[pat]

Hedi,

Tell Mike that even if not posting, I check in every day to see the latest report, and hope to see the stone has passed and he's on his way to feeling better.

 

[purrfectcatlove]

Thanks Pat

, you are so sweet .

I was bussy early , any who , Mike does have pain on and off and he really is a grump right now . I guess due to the pain he is having . Right now he is just taking mortin for the pain and helps some what . He also is staying home from work today for sure . We are hoping he passing that "monster" soon , even if it means pain . I just got him some more Cranberry juice and water from the commissary today , so he will have plenty of fluits to drink .

 

[tuxedokitties]

Ouch!

I've just now found this thread. I sure hope he's feeling better soon.

 

[purrfectcatlove]

Thank's Tuxedo

Well , Mike still has the stone

. He is not going to the specialist what he was suposed to go to . The stone is hurting Mike here and there and then Mike take's some pain killer . That is all on the news , I gues back to squer one

 

[pat]

Oh Hedi,

I know I must sound terribly blunt, but I don't like to mince words when it's really important. Can you please tell this man you love that his stubborness could put him at risk of kidney damage? He's at risk for infection, kidney damage and the pain he's going through may be lasting longer and be worse than any treatment.

I can only imagine this is very difficult for you, I hope he will change his mind soon,

 

[debby]

I agree with what what she said...he is putting himself at risk for more problems...I am really worried about him...please, PLEASE make him got to the Dr. and get help with this....it is too much to bear on his own.

 

[ttmom]

Yes, he is putting himself at major risk by not going. Forget the kidney damage, he could die if the stone doesn't pass and only causes an infection. Some larger stones scrape the insides of the kidneys or the tubing as they pass which can cause major infection. Tell him to get his butt to a doctor.

 

[huggles]

I second all these previous posts.... grab him by the neck and get him there!!!

sorry to generalise here - but you men!! sometimes your soooo stubborn!!! geeeezzzzzz!!!

 

[purrfectcatlove]

Thank you all for your reply

What can I say , Mike is very subburn (sp) man when it come to Dr.
I do agree with all of you and I can talk to him again , but I am afraid that he is not listening to me

.

 

[kumbulu]

You may have to turn on the tears if asking, begging, shouting, pleading etc. hasn't worked. You might want to tell him that if he does damage or gets an infection, it could be EVEN MORE painful that what he's experiencing right now. It's been a few days and if the stone hasn't passed by now, it may not pass at all. I hate to say this and don't want to sound mean, but hopefully the pain will drive him back to the doctor and he can get some treatment.

 

[elisabeth provo]

Originally Posted by PurrfectCatlove

Starting last week my husband is having kidney pain , on and off . But like most man , he is not going to the Dr. So tonight he come home over 1 hour early from work saying he start having a sharp pain in the kidney . He try to ride it out but could not . Mike is not that kind of person to come home b/c of pain , nor is he a wimp in that area . So he realy has to be in a lot of pain comming home early from work . He try to lay down , but the pain is worse when try to sleep . He don't want to go to the hospital and now he is sitting in a rocking chair , since the pain seems to be a little better then laying down . He took some pain killer and they don't work . I give him a heating patch to lay on the pain , but have no clue if it will help him . Any one in here has a idea what to do to to help his pain ? Thanks

Hi,
My husband had a similar problem. The doc is the only solution.It´s usually some stone or smaller particles that are on their way out that cause these problems.Make him see a specialist for uro genital problems.He´ll be so relieved when the pains are gone.It´s supposed to be worse than giving birth
So, my best to all of you
Elisabeth

 

[catfolks]

Heidi
This is Charlie KittenKrazy's hubby tell him to see the specialist I have had kidney stones I know what it is, I have cyst in my right kidney the size of a ping pong ball
because of it. Tell DH to please go! With the lortabs don't let the pain get intense
before he takes it or won't do him as much good.
Good luck!
May God Bless!

 

[purrfectcatlove]

Originally Posted by Catfolks

Heidi
This is Charlie KittenKrazy's hubby tell him to see the specialist I have had kidney stones I know what it is, I have cyst in my right kidney the size of a ping pong ball
because of it. Tell DH to please go! With the lortabs don't let the pain get intense
before he takes it or won't do him as much good.
Good luck!
May God Bless!

OMG

, I am so sorry to hear that . Bless your heart , I am sure the cyst is not funny either

. I hope you are ok and all will go well for you . I sure will say a prayer for you

Thank yo all for the reply's

I did talk to my husband today for a little while and he agree to see a specialist

, that's the good news . The bad news is : He is working straight through next week Wednesday

. I hope he is not changing his mind in that time .Maybe we can go to the specialist then .

Please keep your prayers , thoughts and vipes comming . Thank's again to evey body in here . This is really a great suport for me