I've done it twice! And they say it can't be done.
Only thing THOSE experts are expert in is IGNORANCE!
No shortage of fools in the world.
I've done it twice! And they say it can't be done.
I keep telling my wild and feral beasties that, but they keep coming back in for the warms and the tunas.It says right on their website that feral cats can never be tamed, they don't want to live with humans.
I never knew that. That's amazing. I'm very impressed.socialising more than four dozen over the years, to go to Forever homes
My kitten is growing up. Good job Violet on eating your first solid food.Violet ate solid food with Mom today
The hawk is NOT staying away. I stand by my position - and legal does not equal moral.Violet is so pretty! What a sweet little face. I'm glad the Gingerbread Family are getting used to the trap. Sometimes you have to move at glacial speed when you're trying to trap some of the very shy ones.
Hope that hawk stays away.
I really enjoyed this story. May I add, back in the 70s I learned the deeper, truer meaning of real love. I also know, like others, it can never be forced. It must be won via real friendship. I bought a halter broke only, horse. I slowly, via loving actions "broke' her to ride (this was long before the time to 'break horses' with LOVE, others failed to practice). From the very first time I got on her back, she NEVER offered to buck even once. Never did thereafter and she lived to a ripe old age with me (I don't abandon the elderly, people or animals). True friendship can't be trumped (no pun intended), because it's founded in God's love. Prov. 12:10.
I have eight former ferals currently, and over the past sixty years have had <mumbley-mumble> former ferals, as well as socialising more than four dozen over the years, to go to Forever homes with Loving families.
"Tame," might be in question, but, "Loving," never is; former ferals are the most Loving cats I've ever known. As to, "tame," there's a verse from an old cowboy ballad - Big Jim Bailey, Or The Zebra Dun - that addresses it pretty well, in plain language.
Big Jim is a puncher who walks into a drivers camp one evening. He says he's lost his job, and wants to borrow an horse to head for the 7D Ranch, across the Texas Plains. The cowboys give him an horse, of course - one who's never been ridden, and who has killed two men who tried. The stranger sits him, and waits him out while he bucks and sunfishes for two minutes, before leaning down the horse's neck and whispering something in his ear. Years later, one of the punchers asks how he "tamed" the horse.
"One evenin' as we sat to chuck, old Shorty asked for fun,
How was it that Big Jim had ever broke the Zebra Dun;
And Jim replied, "man cannot break no mustang in the end;
The closest thing a man can do is to make that horse his Friend."
White Tip is the wildest feral I've ever known - years living outdoors by her wits alone, and four years to convince her that "inside" was best. She purrs like a lion when I hold her - but still has the Heart of a lion as well, and anyone else she'd sooner tear to pieces than look at.
Former ferals are different - but that day when they realise that the food and the Love won't ever stop, something magical happens - and there's nothing else in this world that even comes close to that magic.
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Well, the news for this morning was that my ginger was missing. I knew they were nervous last night. Happily I found him fairly quickly and he was willing to follow me back to his siblings. None of the Gingerbread babies were willing to eat in the trap this morning. I tried to insist but by late this afternoon I became worried that they would seek food elsewhere. I fed them beside the trap and they devoured the food. I did too it with a little extra incentive. Meat baby food. I decided not to push them this evening for any close activities. I am feeling pressured to get them quickly since we have bad weather looming but I think if it rains they will retreat to the little house. Last night and this morning they preferred to be out under the tarp. The noise from last night left them upset and I think they felt a need to be where they could make a quick getaway from any invaders to the property. They seem calmer now and they are all accounted for as dark falls.
I took some pictures that I think will show their body language well. Not as happy. Reading the kitties expressions does help to understand their needs. View attachment 252039View attachment 252040
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Hopefully they are trusting me more each day.
On a happier note, Flowers allowed me to pet the kitten named Violet today. She did watch me carefully as I did it but I was shocked that she neither based or scratched me. All I got was a look that made me smile. Good mama kitty! I do love Flowers!View attachment 252046
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I love Proverbs! I was just reading that yesterday. Thanks for sharing.True friendship can't be trumped (no pun intended), because it's founded in God's love. Prov. 12:10
Can't wait to hear your news!Got some good news coming! Going to take some kitty picture first though. Back later with the news.
I love Proverbs! I was just reading that yesterday. Thanks for sharing.
Such good news to my ears. Proverbs, Romans, John - if "the world" would just read, absorb and follow it's great TRUTHS, we all would be better off as a nation and a world.Such good ne