I have a balcony where they cant really scape.. or i thought so until i saw one of my cats trying to jump into my neighbors house... I got her quickly back in, now she goes with the harness to the balcony but today i noticed that she refuses to go back it, I spent Nearly 2h outside with her and i had to force her to get back in, i have to do house stuff as well and i cant do that in the balcony. I had to pick her up but she kept jumping out of my hands - shes now crying at the door begging to go outside but im scared, i don't want her to go on her own, shes not spayed and shes smarter than I thought.. anything that I could do or should i let her go outside on her own, my neighbor has a dangerous breed dog that tried to attack me twice as well, that kinda adds up to my fear