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I'll see if I can sum up my cat's story here:
We originally adopted Ally when she was 2-3 years old as an Emotional Support Animal (I'm disabled due to Panic Disorder). Barring a revelation that she was blind in one eye and would occasionally get minor infections in said eye, she was perfectly healthy for the next 2-4 years.
Sometime in winter of 2012/2013, I noticed that she was straining when trying to use the litterbox and eventually, she gave up on the litterbox and started using her bed as an alternative. When we noticed that there was blood in her stool, we took her in to a new vet for her first de-obstipation, where she was kept overnight, given plenty of fluids, and was manually cleaned out from severe constipation. The vet gave us some Lactulose and sent us on our merry way with a brand spankin' new bill of over $300, something that was extraordinarily tight on one income (My Dad was the only source of income at the time, as I wasn't completely disabled enough to qualify for government assistance). This has mostly done the trick in managing her constipation issues over the last few years, adjusting as needed and with the occasional enema (I think before this weekend she had only required 2, maybe 3 enemas).
About a month and a half ago, my Mom and I moved into a new house. We expected Ally to get constipated from the stress, but she took to her new room like a fish to water. However, I noticed at some point last week that she hadn't really poo'd in a few days and her appetite had decreased to where she was refusing her kibble (She cannot tolerate wet food, makes her vomit every time). We managed to get an emergency appointment with a new vet who confirmed my suspicions that Ally has megacolon and probably has the entire time we've been dealing with chronic constipation, sedated her, gave her some fluids, and gave her two enemas - This time the bill came to about $300+.
Within maybe 2 hours of being home from the vet, Ally began vomiting - a trend which continued for roughly 12 hours, off and on. She was also leaking a bloody/mucus discharge from her rear end, and was refusing to eat anything. While I wasn't worried about the lack of poo per say, I WAS worried about her not eating, as I know that can lead to fatty liver.
Concerned, my Mom and I took her to the Emergency Vet, who once again had to sedate Ally, gave her some sub-q fluids, a shot for nausea, and sent us away. The bill this time was an additional $200 (It would have been way more if the vet had done x-rays or blood tests)
Now, it's Sunday (nearly Monday), and not much has changed. Ally has tried to poo twice today, but very minimal stool came out and even then, it was mostly blood. Even though I rarely see her drinking water, she's urinated several times per day. She also straight up refuses to eat - won't eat her old kibble, would barely touch 2-3 small pieces of chicken that I tore up for her. The only thing she's really able to eat are some of her Temptations Treats - but a 20lb cat cannot live off of treats alone.
My Mom and I have reached the decision that this has to be it; As bad as it sounds, we financially cannot afford any further treatment - not after the initial vet appointment, the ER bill, and a bill from our old vet prior to moving that ran something like $400. Our savings are tapped out and neither of us has good enough credit to qualify for anything like CareCredit (thanks student loans -__- ). The stress of going to the vet so much, having to be sedated (she's almost feral towards vet staff), being on several different meds, and having to fight her to take the meds in the first place is no way for her to have to live. We currently have her corraled into a little mesh puppy play yard thing, surrounded by puppy pee pads so that if she does leak, it doesn't make a huge mess.
I guess I'm mostly just looking for reassurance that I'm not completely in the wrong for saying "Enough is enough" and opting for euthanasia rather than spending money we don't have on something that isn't a guaranteed fix.
We originally adopted Ally when she was 2-3 years old as an Emotional Support Animal (I'm disabled due to Panic Disorder). Barring a revelation that she was blind in one eye and would occasionally get minor infections in said eye, she was perfectly healthy for the next 2-4 years.
Sometime in winter of 2012/2013, I noticed that she was straining when trying to use the litterbox and eventually, she gave up on the litterbox and started using her bed as an alternative. When we noticed that there was blood in her stool, we took her in to a new vet for her first de-obstipation, where she was kept overnight, given plenty of fluids, and was manually cleaned out from severe constipation. The vet gave us some Lactulose and sent us on our merry way with a brand spankin' new bill of over $300, something that was extraordinarily tight on one income (My Dad was the only source of income at the time, as I wasn't completely disabled enough to qualify for government assistance). This has mostly done the trick in managing her constipation issues over the last few years, adjusting as needed and with the occasional enema (I think before this weekend she had only required 2, maybe 3 enemas).
About a month and a half ago, my Mom and I moved into a new house. We expected Ally to get constipated from the stress, but she took to her new room like a fish to water. However, I noticed at some point last week that she hadn't really poo'd in a few days and her appetite had decreased to where she was refusing her kibble (She cannot tolerate wet food, makes her vomit every time). We managed to get an emergency appointment with a new vet who confirmed my suspicions that Ally has megacolon and probably has the entire time we've been dealing with chronic constipation, sedated her, gave her some fluids, and gave her two enemas - This time the bill came to about $300+.
Within maybe 2 hours of being home from the vet, Ally began vomiting - a trend which continued for roughly 12 hours, off and on. She was also leaking a bloody/mucus discharge from her rear end, and was refusing to eat anything. While I wasn't worried about the lack of poo per say, I WAS worried about her not eating, as I know that can lead to fatty liver.
Concerned, my Mom and I took her to the Emergency Vet, who once again had to sedate Ally, gave her some sub-q fluids, a shot for nausea, and sent us away. The bill this time was an additional $200 (It would have been way more if the vet had done x-rays or blood tests)
Now, it's Sunday (nearly Monday), and not much has changed. Ally has tried to poo twice today, but very minimal stool came out and even then, it was mostly blood. Even though I rarely see her drinking water, she's urinated several times per day. She also straight up refuses to eat - won't eat her old kibble, would barely touch 2-3 small pieces of chicken that I tore up for her. The only thing she's really able to eat are some of her Temptations Treats - but a 20lb cat cannot live off of treats alone.
My Mom and I have reached the decision that this has to be it; As bad as it sounds, we financially cannot afford any further treatment - not after the initial vet appointment, the ER bill, and a bill from our old vet prior to moving that ran something like $400. Our savings are tapped out and neither of us has good enough credit to qualify for anything like CareCredit (thanks student loans -__- ). The stress of going to the vet so much, having to be sedated (she's almost feral towards vet staff), being on several different meds, and having to fight her to take the meds in the first place is no way for her to have to live. We currently have her corraled into a little mesh puppy play yard thing, surrounded by puppy pee pads so that if she does leak, it doesn't make a huge mess.
I guess I'm mostly just looking for reassurance that I'm not completely in the wrong for saying "Enough is enough" and opting for euthanasia rather than spending money we don't have on something that isn't a guaranteed fix.