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I lost my best buddy today, my 4 year old big bold beautiful black kitty, Petey. He was just a funny cat. I don't know how to explain it, he just made me laugh, hard. I have 2 other cats and a dog. Everyone in our home loved Petey. They don't all get along with each other (the other 2 cats) but everyone loved Petey. He was just a cat like that. He loved to eat, play, and sleep in the softest of dog beds.
He became sick at 2 years old with non-regenerative anemia. He miraculously began regenerating after a blood transfusion and I will never forget how grateful I was to get a second chance. Sometimes there is just a bond with certain animals that is stronger than others, Petey was that special bond.
I spent the next 2 years finding a better house so Petey could sit by the sliders' screen doors and enjoy fresh air, a bigger space and an open setting so he could sit at the top of the stairs and see everything. I would often tell the others "you have Petey to thank for this house" as he was my motivation to move to something better.
6 days ago Petey didn't come down to dinner. I went upstairs and got him out of bed and gently nudged him downstairs - that was my first red flag. The next day he seemed very tired and much less apetite. The day after that (Friday) I had a vet come to the house who told me to bring him to emergency room. He was admitted and spent 4 days in the ICU getting 2 blood transfusions and many meds and fluids.
He took a turn today, unable to breathe due to fluid in his lungs. The vet said the prognosis was grim and to come see him. I had been to visit him every night for 1-2 hours during the allotted 5-8pm visiting hours. He never looked too good but today he was suffering to get a breath. His head was hanging low and he did not want me near him. I knew I had to let go as he was suffering to breath also with open mouth breathing.
For me, it happened so fast it feels surreal. I look back on video footage from cameras in my house and it feels like he is still here, but he isn't. The actually euthenasia was not peaceful to me. I asked to have Petey on my lap and he was put there but tried to jump off when the first needle went in. Additionally, most nights I visited him he was pulling away from me. It is heartbreaking that my sweet soul best friend big little man seemed to not want me there and that this is my last memories of him.
Additionally, his brother is struggling and it pains me to watch this. But I have no energy or motivation to do anything but cry. After our miracle 2 years ago I spent all my energy trying to make Petey happy and give him the best life that he deserves, I just can't believe it was taken away so soon and quickly.
Has anyone else experienced their closely bonded loved one not wanting to be near you in the final days?
He became sick at 2 years old with non-regenerative anemia. He miraculously began regenerating after a blood transfusion and I will never forget how grateful I was to get a second chance. Sometimes there is just a bond with certain animals that is stronger than others, Petey was that special bond.
I spent the next 2 years finding a better house so Petey could sit by the sliders' screen doors and enjoy fresh air, a bigger space and an open setting so he could sit at the top of the stairs and see everything. I would often tell the others "you have Petey to thank for this house" as he was my motivation to move to something better.
6 days ago Petey didn't come down to dinner. I went upstairs and got him out of bed and gently nudged him downstairs - that was my first red flag. The next day he seemed very tired and much less apetite. The day after that (Friday) I had a vet come to the house who told me to bring him to emergency room. He was admitted and spent 4 days in the ICU getting 2 blood transfusions and many meds and fluids.
He took a turn today, unable to breathe due to fluid in his lungs. The vet said the prognosis was grim and to come see him. I had been to visit him every night for 1-2 hours during the allotted 5-8pm visiting hours. He never looked too good but today he was suffering to get a breath. His head was hanging low and he did not want me near him. I knew I had to let go as he was suffering to breath also with open mouth breathing.
For me, it happened so fast it feels surreal. I look back on video footage from cameras in my house and it feels like he is still here, but he isn't. The actually euthenasia was not peaceful to me. I asked to have Petey on my lap and he was put there but tried to jump off when the first needle went in. Additionally, most nights I visited him he was pulling away from me. It is heartbreaking that my sweet soul best friend big little man seemed to not want me there and that this is my last memories of him.
Additionally, his brother is struggling and it pains me to watch this. But I have no energy or motivation to do anything but cry. After our miracle 2 years ago I spent all my energy trying to make Petey happy and give him the best life that he deserves, I just can't believe it was taken away so soon and quickly.
Has anyone else experienced their closely bonded loved one not wanting to be near you in the final days?
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