I have been spending the night at my boyfriends house most nights, meaning my 2 cats (5 yrs old and 18 yrs old) go without seeing me for most of the day every weekday. I get home from work around 6 and am usually home and hanging out with them until around 8 or 9 at least, and then I won’t see them again until the next day when I get home from work. On weekends I spend pretty much all day with them both days and most weeks I’ll sleep at my house 1-3 nights out of the week. Is this enough time? Should I reduce the amount of time I’m spending at my boyfriends house?
Another factor is that one of my 2 cats (the 5 yr old) stays in my guest bedroom room while I’m away. The room has a window and food and a litter box and tons of toys, but I feel especially bad for her. Her and the older cat don’t get along and that’s been a really difficult process. Ive had the younger one about 6 months and they are finally at least tolerating each other while I’m there, but I still don’t feel comfortable leaving them alone together. It has been really difficult and so much harder than I would’ve ever imagined, but I think my older cat was just so used to it just being me and her all the time and she really doesn’t like all of these changes.
Anyway, what are your thoughts? Do I need to spend more time with them?
Another factor is that one of my 2 cats (the 5 yr old) stays in my guest bedroom room while I’m away. The room has a window and food and a litter box and tons of toys, but I feel especially bad for her. Her and the older cat don’t get along and that’s been a really difficult process. Ive had the younger one about 6 months and they are finally at least tolerating each other while I’m there, but I still don’t feel comfortable leaving them alone together. It has been really difficult and so much harder than I would’ve ever imagined, but I think my older cat was just so used to it just being me and her all the time and she really doesn’t like all of these changes.
Anyway, what are your thoughts? Do I need to spend more time with them?