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Hey, I have this lovely little cat. And we have always been very close. She’s very affectionate and needy and loves being around people and purrs all the time and comes when she’s called.
She would greet me every time I came home from work or wherever I was.
But I had to go away for 5 months for medical reasons and I didn’t see her at all during those months. And my parents took care of her when I was gone. I live with my parents so it worked out pretty well.
But now I’m back and I was overjoyed to see her. And she seemed kinda confused to see me.
I thought things would go back to normal eventually but it’s been two weeks and she doesn’t greet me at the door the way she used to. She doesn’t purr when I pet her. She doesn’t come when I call her. She doesn’t get excited to see me.
She’s not mean or anything. She’s just not nearly as affectionate as she once was. And not nearly as loving to me. Right now I think she might prefer my parents to me, which hurts a lot.
We had a real bond and I’m just worried now that’s gone forever. I’m worried that she no longer loves me.
And that’s a devastating thing for me to feel.
Do you think our relationship is destroyed forever and will never go back to what it once was.
Is it possible that she forgot me? She remembers how to do her tricks, which my parents didn’t practice with her at all. So I know her memory isn’t that bad.
But the way she’s acting makes me wonder if she really did forget me
She would greet me every time I came home from work or wherever I was.
But I had to go away for 5 months for medical reasons and I didn’t see her at all during those months. And my parents took care of her when I was gone. I live with my parents so it worked out pretty well.
But now I’m back and I was overjoyed to see her. And she seemed kinda confused to see me.
I thought things would go back to normal eventually but it’s been two weeks and she doesn’t greet me at the door the way she used to. She doesn’t purr when I pet her. She doesn’t come when I call her. She doesn’t get excited to see me.
She’s not mean or anything. She’s just not nearly as affectionate as she once was. And not nearly as loving to me. Right now I think she might prefer my parents to me, which hurts a lot.
We had a real bond and I’m just worried now that’s gone forever. I’m worried that she no longer loves me.
And that’s a devastating thing for me to feel.
Do you think our relationship is destroyed forever and will never go back to what it once was.
Is it possible that she forgot me? She remembers how to do her tricks, which my parents didn’t practice with her at all. So I know her memory isn’t that bad.
But the way she’s acting makes me wonder if she really did forget me