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As some of you may know I have two cats. A female cat named Stella, and a male cat named Toby.
Stella is a little over a year old, and Toby just recently turned 1. So I wanted to ask you guys for your opinion on this.... Stella isn't much for rough housing, and I try to play with Toby a lot to get his energy out. Sometimes though, he likes to make a run for her and almost like a wrestler jump and grab her by the neck with his paws and then he flips over her and tries to wrestle. Or he just sometimes makes a run for her and will lay on her and try to wrestle with her grabbing her neck or tummy.
Sometimes she plays along, but most of the time this is when the growling and hissing starts with Stella. She growls at his and hisses at him (he usually doesn't get the hint) and then jumps onto the cat tree.
Now, it's confusing because there are plenty of times that she chases him, or stalks and scares him and then wrestles him down or pins him....And he also goes up to her a lot and head butts her and they lick each other, mutual grooming and all of that..
So my question is...It Toby hurting her when she hisses and growls like that? Or is she just being a cry baby knowing that I will make Toby stop?
Stella is a little over a year old, and Toby just recently turned 1. So I wanted to ask you guys for your opinion on this.... Stella isn't much for rough housing, and I try to play with Toby a lot to get his energy out. Sometimes though, he likes to make a run for her and almost like a wrestler jump and grab her by the neck with his paws and then he flips over her and tries to wrestle. Or he just sometimes makes a run for her and will lay on her and try to wrestle with her grabbing her neck or tummy.
Sometimes she plays along, but most of the time this is when the growling and hissing starts with Stella. She growls at his and hisses at him (he usually doesn't get the hint) and then jumps onto the cat tree.
Now, it's confusing because there are plenty of times that she chases him, or stalks and scares him and then wrestles him down or pins him....And he also goes up to her a lot and head butts her and they lick each other, mutual grooming and all of that..
So my question is...It Toby hurting her when she hisses and growls like that? Or is she just being a cry baby knowing that I will make Toby stop?