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Love his dots on each side of that cute little pink nose- such a handsome guy
There have been times when they (Lila especially) will turn a love nibble into a bite. It takes me by surprise and I don't even try to keep my voice low when I shout "OUCH". They also know what "stop that" means. They don't always listen, but, they know!I raise my voice & holler No!!!
Believe me, they know what no means! I don't have time to mess around with nasty gaping cuts & ferals can really cut you! These aren't tame sweet house cats. They are backwoods ferals kinda like me. But I love them more than my own life & they ain't going nowhere. But they gotta behave! And stay out of my clean clothes tote! Frasier loves to throw them on the floor. I'm like- Absolutely Not! Get out! And he knows what I mean. They learn words if you repeat them every single time.
Cats' hearing is MUCH more sensitive than ours, so yelling isn't necessary. A firm voice and facial expression would be all that's required, or hissing, which mother cats use to discipline their kids.I would really yell louder, but I live in an apartment building.. noisy neighbors, also.. They would would probably call 911 on me, if they heard me yelling..
Going to resort to the spray water bottle only when he is aggressive towards me.. Vet suggested Zyklene sprinkled on his food.. but Tux, the street cat, is staging a hunger strike!! He wants only Dry food; refusing all wet food, no matter what brand-- even Fancy Feast and Friskies. It is a matter of wills at this point. I opened a can of FF chicken this morning.. nope.. still there.. just opened a can of Wellness chicken pate-- not, still there.. so he can starve. I am not going to create a fussy cat. I have enough issues with him. I do not need another one.
Artie was very fussy with food. I created a monster, and he was stubborn. With Geoffrey, he tried to be fussy, but I played Tuff Love Mama, and I won. Tux is much different, so we will see.... sigh
He really is making very good progress for having been neutered so recently, and coming in from the cold, so to speak, so recently.Well, the Vet said that Tuxie is a Year old-at the most; so he is still a kitten-- and a big boy. He has gained a pound since he was adopted by me! He weighs 11 lbs. I need to wean him off the kitten dry food. I am getting some Purina One indoor cat dry chicken to mix with the next bag of kitten food. He eats a lot..
After being an 'ex-feral' or 'street' cat, he gobbles down his food.
I amfairly free feeding him, or so....I give him between 1/2- 1 small can of food in the morning. He usually does not eat all of it. I am leaving it down.. another 1/2-1 can at night, with at least 1/3 of dry. He devours the dry food, almost immediately.. the wet food stays there.
The Vet feels that Tux will calm down. He said he is very observant, intelligent, curious. He pretty much did not have any fear at the Vets. He was walking around, ending up in the sink!! Tux is also getting fussy with food!
He refused the Vet's treats!! Preferring Greenies or his Calming treats, instead! He did not agree with me when I said I think he is an alpha cat in the making..
The Vet also said that I can use Zykleene: open the capsule and mix with his food... and/or a Comfort Zone calming collar... And if I have to, a spray water bottle.If these do not work, or he does not improve, I am to contact the Vet. I am using the spray water bottle, when he comes towards me. He is afraid of the spray bottle. I am also using a strong NO, and putting my finger up... He seems to starting to understand this command.
Tux zooms around for several hours in the morning--- you could say he is wild.. and another few hours at night. Last night, I was exhausted, and did not have a play session--- he was wild.. 1/2 of liter box on floor!! Toys everywhere, wanting to come under the sheet in bed, to bite/play with my feet/legs!!
I am consistent with the NO. I show him the spray bottle, and he 99% of the time stops.
I also got him a teddy bear from Walmart. It is about his size. When he starts with me, I throw the teddy bear on the floor, saying: "Go Get Teddy!"..
You should see how he attacks it!! goes for the throat!! and he carries Teddy around the house, looking for a 'home' to attack/eat him.. It is really comical. I also got him a Dog toy: a "Lamb Chop"-- from the old Shari Lewis TV show for kids in the early 60's...
Tux allows me to pick him up.. and to brush him a bit. I keep telling him he is a 'good' boy.
I know I have to be patient. Tux was taken off the streets one month ago. He was neutered 2+ weeks ago. I have not had him for a full 3 weeks, yet....
Picture of Tuxie with his teddy;
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Thanks.. It feels like a lifetime of training, bites & scratches... but it has only been since Sept 18; so almost 3 weeks. It feels like very slow progress-- if any..Wow, you are doing a great job with Tuxie! The teddy bear was a good idea. Have you tried grain free? I always thought it was a gimmick, but we are trying it now & it seems to be working well! I found a Purina Pro Plan grain free dry food at Chewy, so we ordered it this morning. Should be here in a couple days. They really prefer Purina.
I have had fussy ferals. It seems that some cats view food preferences entirely separate from hunger.For a cat who lived on the outside he is pretty fussy