Probably achieve more by playing with the kitten as much as you can, but helping the older cat get a little break now and then might help a bit. Just don't feel like its your job. No way you could possibly be there every time, and you don't need to be.Should I intervene when the younger one is bothering the 3yo? Or just let it play out?
Remember, distract in a low key fashion. Don't want to accidentally add to the big cat's stress.
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