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i currently live in a 3 bedroom apartment with 1 roommate ive lived with for years and a new roommate coming in august. i have a cat, (1.5 yo spayed female) who has lived here for 8 months now. a close friend of mine is finishing socializing three 10~ week old kittens and has homes for all but the female. she has had offers but doesn't trust the potential adopters and asked me specifically if i would take her. i love the kitten and am definitely interested and was 100% on board with the idea of taking her until a couple of days ago.
our new roommate dumped on us last minute that she has a 7(?) month old cat, also a spayed female. while this isn't a big deal because it wouldn't have been a deal breaker, i'm worried about 3 cats meeting each other at the same time. i would be taking the kitten around when the new roommate's cat comes. the new roommate will only be here august through december.
my resident cat has 0 issues with other cats. kinda got stuck living with 4 strange cats for 2 months at my vet tech school and she never once showed any aggression towards them. she just did her thing! my concern is i know nothing about this new cat (all i got was "she's nice!") and i also am worried about the kitten. i would definitely keep the kitten in my bathroom for a few days to let my cat meet her through the door before letting them interact. but how would this work with the roommates cat?
i really love the kitten and don't think anyone else who has offered to take her could give her a better life than i could (she would be very spoiled!) but i also don't want to put her in a stressful situation. i don't want to overwhelm my resi cat even though she's very calm and doesn't even get stressed in new environments. would it be best to turn the kitten down because of the roommates cat coming at the same time? is there a way introducing these three cats could go well and safely? any advice would be great.
our new roommate dumped on us last minute that she has a 7(?) month old cat, also a spayed female. while this isn't a big deal because it wouldn't have been a deal breaker, i'm worried about 3 cats meeting each other at the same time. i would be taking the kitten around when the new roommate's cat comes. the new roommate will only be here august through december.
my resident cat has 0 issues with other cats. kinda got stuck living with 4 strange cats for 2 months at my vet tech school and she never once showed any aggression towards them. she just did her thing! my concern is i know nothing about this new cat (all i got was "she's nice!") and i also am worried about the kitten. i would definitely keep the kitten in my bathroom for a few days to let my cat meet her through the door before letting them interact. but how would this work with the roommates cat?
i really love the kitten and don't think anyone else who has offered to take her could give her a better life than i could (she would be very spoiled!) but i also don't want to put her in a stressful situation. i don't want to overwhelm my resi cat even though she's very calm and doesn't even get stressed in new environments. would it be best to turn the kitten down because of the roommates cat coming at the same time? is there a way introducing these three cats could go well and safely? any advice would be great.