I am starting a small cattery and have some questions about if it is better to start with an intact male and let them grow up, or and unaltered female. I have read that unaltered females spray sometimes when in heat. How often does this happen and do they stop spraying when they are not in heat? Do males always spray if they are left intact. If I purchase a male first he will be a pet also and will live in our house with two small dogs and kids. If I decide on a male, is it better to buy them as a kitten or young adult? I have done a lot of research and have read different things about both male and females. My mentor said her females never spray. I would greatly appreciate any input or prior experience. Please only positive messages! Thanks