NEVERMIND - FORGET IT - JUST VENTING. I'LL GET OVER IT. I love this site, and they have been very, very helpful to me. But, the worst thing that I have found about this site is those who want to read a post or two, and not go down the entire path of posts - in order to get the whole story. If you don't have the whole story, you are offering advice that is not based on the whole story. If you don't want to take the time to read all the details, that so many desperate owners provide, then just tell them you are supporting them and wish them the best - to give them encouragement. But, when you offer advise that doesn't coincide with what they are telling you - you are telling them not to trust the advice. I try VERY hard not to give any suggestions/advice/tips without first reading the ENTIRE thread. I am sure I have made mistakes. But, if you are not willing to read it all, just give the poster support - without advice - and move on.