So the first Christmas, Dante got very ill right on Christmas Eve. I wound up putting him to sleep about a week after Christmas.
Last year I was still to heartbroken to really enjoy Christmas. My mom gave me a painting of Dante which I love. Weird as it sounds, I like putting my seasonal wreaths and stuff by Dante’s painting .... since that is the wall I stare at the most. (The candle is rarely lit.)
This year I bought a silly Christmas frame app & I have been going back to add frames to all my favorite pictures. Plus I got Jackie and Nick Christmas stockings. Jackie was being naughty as I was trying to wrap presents so I gave him a stocking with tissue paper, catnip & 2 of his old toys in it while I wrapped. He loved it! They are getting Christmas presents in their stockings and I’m hoping to get great photos this year. Yes I will make them wear a scarf.
Though I still miss Dante, the pain isn’t as acute as it was last year. Being able to see him in the painting helps. Plus (& I know this awful) I can finally hear Jackie’s puuurrrsss now! I guess he finally got big enough or decided to puuurrr louder? It is still soft but being able to hear it brings me joy. I really missed Dante’s super loud motorcycle purr. I still do.
Plus as you can see, I take a ton of pictures & videos of Jackie (& Nick.) If you are grieving the loss of pet this Holiday season, my heart goes out to you. Please look for the small joys.
Thank you everyone for helping me get through last year, when all the Christmas stuff reminded me of my loss.
Last year I was still to heartbroken to really enjoy Christmas. My mom gave me a painting of Dante which I love. Weird as it sounds, I like putting my seasonal wreaths and stuff by Dante’s painting .... since that is the wall I stare at the most. (The candle is rarely lit.)
This year I bought a silly Christmas frame app & I have been going back to add frames to all my favorite pictures. Plus I got Jackie and Nick Christmas stockings. Jackie was being naughty as I was trying to wrap presents so I gave him a stocking with tissue paper, catnip & 2 of his old toys in it while I wrapped. He loved it! They are getting Christmas presents in their stockings and I’m hoping to get great photos this year. Yes I will make them wear a scarf.
Though I still miss Dante, the pain isn’t as acute as it was last year. Being able to see him in the painting helps. Plus (& I know this awful) I can finally hear Jackie’s puuurrrsss now! I guess he finally got big enough or decided to puuurrr louder? It is still soft but being able to hear it brings me joy. I really missed Dante’s super loud motorcycle purr. I still do.
Plus as you can see, I take a ton of pictures & videos of Jackie (& Nick.) If you are grieving the loss of pet this Holiday season, my heart goes out to you. Please look for the small joys.
Thank you everyone for helping me get through last year, when all the Christmas stuff reminded me of my loss.