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Don’t let him or her out.
Our one year old calico, Kaia, wanted out like I’ve never seen a cat want out before. She put holes in the screen trying to open it, and tore the weather stripping apart. Early July I decided I’d just let her out, I was feeling guilty making her stay in against her will because of my own human selfishness. So I bought a leash and harness and she went out on a leash. My kids and I walked her every day for a while but she wanted to be out ALL the time. Eventually we just let her out. We live on a dirt road out in the country, quiet and I thought safe. I notified our neighbours so they knew who’s cat she was. Our chickens free range all day and we have never had a predator, so I thought we were ok in that area too.
Kaia did great initially. Always came running when we called her, always came home by evening and we kept her in at night. Until yesterday. Kaia was last seen at home around 2pm, and then she disappeared. It is now 7am and no sign of her. I have a good feeling something bad has happened, but I don’t know what or where. She wasn’t hit by a car as we have checked the road. I fear she’s trapped somewhere or an animal got her. She was very friendly and would go up to anyone or anything.
I feel sick about this. I made the wrong decision and learned a hard lesson. Our other cat, Binx, will never go out. He doesn’t want out like she did. He’s happy inside for the most part. Please don’t let your cats out. For those who do, and your cats manage to have long lives....you are just lucky.
Our one year old calico, Kaia, wanted out like I’ve never seen a cat want out before. She put holes in the screen trying to open it, and tore the weather stripping apart. Early July I decided I’d just let her out, I was feeling guilty making her stay in against her will because of my own human selfishness. So I bought a leash and harness and she went out on a leash. My kids and I walked her every day for a while but she wanted to be out ALL the time. Eventually we just let her out. We live on a dirt road out in the country, quiet and I thought safe. I notified our neighbours so they knew who’s cat she was. Our chickens free range all day and we have never had a predator, so I thought we were ok in that area too.
Kaia did great initially. Always came running when we called her, always came home by evening and we kept her in at night. Until yesterday. Kaia was last seen at home around 2pm, and then she disappeared. It is now 7am and no sign of her. I have a good feeling something bad has happened, but I don’t know what or where. She wasn’t hit by a car as we have checked the road. I fear she’s trapped somewhere or an animal got her. She was very friendly and would go up to anyone or anything.
I feel sick about this. I made the wrong decision and learned a hard lesson. Our other cat, Binx, will never go out. He doesn’t want out like she did. He’s happy inside for the most part. Please don’t let your cats out. For those who do, and your cats manage to have long lives....you are just lucky.