Soo since I got him in 2018 he had mild gingivitis. My vet told me I should start brushing his teeth. I did try but over the course of the last two years he would not let me touch him. It was so difficult so I feel guilty not trying hard enough. I saw that he or I thought that he wasn’t in pain. He never pawed at his mouth. He never had trouble eating his foood or drooling. So I guess I forgot about it. Yesterday I saw that his gum lines are more red then I remember. I tried brushing his teeth and instantly blood on the toothbrush and he pulled away looking like he was in pain. It brought to myself cats do not show pain and it got me thinking if he was in pain in the 2 years I had him. I feel terrible. I thought I surely would see a sign. Nothing. Maybe he like to push his face on corners or tables and my chin but my friends cat does that. He also has plaque on his teeth. My vet never put dental cleanings on the table because he is asthmatic. She said she wants to avoid pulling his teeth one day to avoid anesthesia because of his asthma. But now I’m thinking since my last visit with the vet 8 months ago it got worse and I’m scared we might have to put him under anesthesia. I feel like he really needs a cleaning now. Because maybe his pain is not mild discomfort anymore if they are did this red. Maybe they are more red today because I brushed his teeth yesterday and they are irritated. Sorry for rambling so much but I get periods of being paranoid because I love this cat so much. I scared that he might have to go on anesthesia. Does anyone have experience with an asthmatic cat with dental cleanings?