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My 19 year old cat crossed the Rainbow Bridge March 16th and I was left with my other 7 year old cat feeling lonely. I probably jumped and adopted too soon, but I adopted a 1 year old female that just had babies and was spayed and a stray. She seemed ok at the shelter, and they said she was fine with other cats.
Well, I had a her a whole 9 days and decided she wasn't for me and brought her back today I felt horrible about it, but she just wasn't the kind of kitty I had thought she would be.
She didn't want to be petted or picked up, she didn't come by me, she didn't go by the other cat, and she pretty much just slept in the corners of my house mostly. She didnt seem this way at the shelter, Then when she did want to have a little pat on the head, she would try to bite me and she started going at my ankles. I actually felt a bit nervous around her and maybe she picked up on that.
I just didn't feel right about her- and now I feel awful about the whole thing.
Now I have my other cat wondering what the heck is going one, first his pal dies and then I get another one, and she goes away... will he be ok?I don't think I can get another cat right now but I don't want him miserable. He pretty much grew up with the older cat.
I hope the other kitty can get a new home with someone is home all day and not working, and no other cat. I hope she get adopted as tonight I feel awful thinking of her back in a cage..
Did I do the right thing I don't know, but I was stressing myself out over it,
So how long do I wait to try again, and what do I get, a kitten or an older cat a male this time?
All too much for me to take in.
Well, I had a her a whole 9 days and decided she wasn't for me and brought her back today I felt horrible about it, but she just wasn't the kind of kitty I had thought she would be.
She didn't want to be petted or picked up, she didn't come by me, she didn't go by the other cat, and she pretty much just slept in the corners of my house mostly. She didnt seem this way at the shelter, Then when she did want to have a little pat on the head, she would try to bite me and she started going at my ankles. I actually felt a bit nervous around her and maybe she picked up on that.
I just didn't feel right about her- and now I feel awful about the whole thing.
Now I have my other cat wondering what the heck is going one, first his pal dies and then I get another one, and she goes away... will he be ok?I don't think I can get another cat right now but I don't want him miserable. He pretty much grew up with the older cat.
I hope the other kitty can get a new home with someone is home all day and not working, and no other cat. I hope she get adopted as tonight I feel awful thinking of her back in a cage..
Did I do the right thing I don't know, but I was stressing myself out over it,
So how long do I wait to try again, and what do I get, a kitten or an older cat a male this time?
All too much for me to take in.