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Hi, im valentine and i have a 7-8 months cat called louis. loius has been around for about 5 months and just a few months ago he has reached sexual maturity. we drove to the vet when he was 4 months old to get him nuetered but the vet inquired at due to his heart murmur it would not be possible. I went to 3 more vets as he got even older and they all suggested not nuetering him and keeping him strictly indoors. but of course, living with a tomcat is not an easy task. he sits at our garden door and cries to be let out, so sometimes when hes good i get his leash on and walk him in the garden. but even then its a pain to bring him back in and when hes in he starts crying at the door again. these behaviours are very troubling as we have lots of guests over and his behaviour worry me too much to enjoy my time. my parents are starting to get annoyed of him and are telling me to just let him free but of course that is very irresponsible and im not going to do it. some vets told me to just euthenize him because "he will be a 15 year headache" and that makes me so mad bc he means a lot to me and im sure there is another way. please give me tips if you have dealt with this. (also i cant afford any expensive medication since im in college.)i really need jackson galaxy right now